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Apparently, according to the article, fellow shoppers were not thrilled w/ the dog(s) licking their toes. Is it allowed to take non service dogs into shops in London? I'm personally not a fan of dogs approaching me in places like shops, if I wanted to interact with dogs then I'd go to a dog park.
Regarding speculating about Pippa's future children, my son & his gf plan to not have children and seem confident in that choice and thus aren't upset if some one asks, so I fail to see why the subject would be inappropriate in discussions about the couple. I do dislike tabloid speculation based on a woman's weight or clothing choices along the is she/isn't she pregnant vein as that seems dehumanizing in a way, but I see that as an entirely different thing than wondering whether a couple plan to have children and if yes, when.
Your son and his girlfriend may very well be comfortable with it but many people aren't. I have friends who are constantly asked when they plan to have children and several of them are struggling with fertility problems and miscarriages- but don't want to disclose that over small talk with random people.
When you ask someone about their plans for children, you're asking them about so many things. Their values and goals, the state of their relationship, their finances, their sex life and their health. All things we would normally understand to be quite rude as a casual inquiry.
It's very hurtful to a lot of people when assumptions about children happen, so it's worth remembering when speculating about a celebrity that some topics that our culture treats as fine to speculate about are actually quite harmful.