QN has stated many times she felt much more at home in Jordan and the ME than the US. She has also stated she was deeply attached to her arab roots and that she never really felt comfortable as "Lisa," as "a nominally episcopalian," even "I found my trust in its [the US] institutions shaken badly." (page 32 of "Leap of Faith). She felt more of an attachment and profound love for the ME because of her heritage and something within her which "forged an inexplicable but profound attachment to the land of my forefathers." She used her love for and understanding of the issues of both countries to help deepen understanding and reestablish communication after difficult times like the Gulf War. She found the West's interest in her "disappointing as the focus always seemed to be on my clothes, not my speeches." For a long time--speaking as someone who really has a deep and abiding respect for QN--she did seem to eschew things she had left behind in the US. Even friends. In her own words, she outlines she was so busy immersing herself in her "new homeland, it was a good ten years before she found time for private visits with them and reestablishing meaningful ties".
But this is not a for or against religions, cultures, countries, what defines west vs. east......topic in any manner, way, shape or form. A young woman married the King of Jordan and it coallesced with her already established high regard and love for the Middle East and she devoted a lot of time to further immersing herself in it. Nothing contentious about that.
I find it interesting to discuss how someone who described herself as anti-establishment and was definitely a free spirited adventurous type transitioned into a Queen then has re-emerged as a person who moves in many of the same crowds who she once sought to move away from. Like Reina, I think QN is not unlike many who were caught up in the incredible events of the 1960's and then became activists who questioned how things were done and began focusing on the rights of others, environmental concerns, the Peace Corps,...... And who have subsequently embraced some of the people whose values they once questioned. But times have changed and many of the power elite were once also like QN, challenging the things they saw, questioning if things were "right," actively pursuing change. I think many of those she now socializes with in those areas are less rigid than in the 50's and 60's--and that, too, may explain her comfort level with them.