https://english.kyodonews.net/news/...ko-boyfriend-komuro-to-marry-by-year-end.html
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Will the plans for a public explanation, refusal of the dowry, and cancellation of ritual ceremonies win, if not public support, then at least public acquiescence? I would like to hear about the reactions to this development on Japanese forums, social media, etc.
I wonder what will happen if the government determines it is not legally possible not to offer the lump-sum payment.
That's the hope, public acquiescence at minimum. Widespread public support was always going to be hard after the money dispute surfaced and there will be people who will never change their poor opinion of Kei or Kayo. Donation is an option if the government must offer the lump-sum payment.
Regarding the reactions from the Kyodo article and Japanese media… Some common comments on
Yahoo news via
Daily Shincho
- Selfish
- Stubborn
- Doubt Mako or Kei can support themselves. Both are called non-workers
- Assumption the Akishino family will pay for the couple
- Decline of Imperial prestige
- What about the money already spent on security for Komuro?
- What about Kayo's pension and worker's accident/compensation fraud allegations?
- How is Komuro paying for law school?
- [Since this is essentially eloping] why not leave immediately?
- Parents didn't rebuke / raise her properly
Jisin quickly ran a survey September 1-3. Overall, 70% of respondents oppose but 57% in the same generation (20s) as Mako, support her marriage.
IMO, skipping traditional rituals and declining the lump-sum payment seem to be the only path forward when Mako and Kei will not end their relationship. I am frustrated the Komuros haven't repaid or at least agreed to a payment plan with the ex-fiance but none of us are privy to the negotiations/bottleneck. Magazines made the dispute public and if the lump-sum is declined or donated, I think a public address would be unproductive. Multiple statements have not swayed public opinion. Why would speaking publicly be different?
Mako and Kei have had years to consider their life together: privately engaged since 2013 and finances being the focus for the last 4 years. I recall their engagement news was leaked so they may have planned to announce marriage plans later anyway. I understand the public's skepticism. They wish Mako to be happy and secure in her future… preferably with someone without family issues, financial trouble, or bullying allegations.
What do you foresee in regards to celebration of the actual marriage? Would a relatively inexpensive wedding reception for the two families and their friends be an option, or are Kayo and/or Kei Komuro so toxic in the court of public opinion that even that much would be damaging to the Akishinos?
Super low-key celebration. Perhaps dinner at the Akishino residence, out of public view. I can't imagine even a small banquet at a nice hotel and the pandemic limits attendees anyway.
Would the couple personally hand in the paperwork to the city office, or would an Imperial Household Agency official be deputized to deliver it as with previous marriages?
I would hope the someone at the IHA has the magnanimity to submit the paperwork and avoid the spectacle of Mako Komuro doing it herself. Despite misgivings and controversy, Princess Mako represented Japan for ~10 years taking on patronages, balancing official duties with her academic studies and part-time job, and official visits to several countries.
I don't recall anyone saying that she would be forced to start over without opportunities, but I think it is true that in a country with very little recognition of non-British royal families and with major differences of culture and language, she and her fiancé cannot anticipate the same opportunities they would have enjoyed in Japan had there been no scandals.
Agreed! Most Americans know very little about the Imperial family. I'm not sure how transferrable Mako's doctorate program at ICU would be to US institutions/programs. Her parents' academic connections could be useful.
I don't think they intended to leave Japan initially, so, my guess is that this decision has been made to follow their desire to be allowed to get married and spend their lives together. Her father clearly wants her 'out of sight' (he preferred her to give up on Kei obviously but she is stubborn enough that that isn't happening - so, this is apparently the most acceptable alternative).
When the NY law school plan was announced, I think the initial plan was for Kei to eventually return to the Japanese law firm where he'd been working as paralegal. 3 years is a long time though and it's probably best for the couple to be out of the public eye. Perhaps they can quietly return to Japan in a few years.