Princess Benedikte's 75th Birthday Celebrations: April-May 2019

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Serene Highness
Feb 8, 2012
Princess Benedikte's 75th birthday will be celebrated with three events in the upcoming weeks.

27 April - Opening of the exhibition ”Prinsesse af tiden. H.K.H. Prinsesse Benedikte og 75 års Danmarkshistorie" at Koldinghus Castle. The Princess will attend the opening herself.

29 April - Queen Margrethe will host a dinner for Princess Benedikte at Christian VII Palace at Amalienborg.

10 May - Reception for organisations and patronages at the Eremitage Palace.

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Princess Benedikte is the most elegant of royals .. and she barely looks sixty-five.
Her biography will be interesting; she is involved in all manner of things.
The cover looks great. Congratulations to her.
As this thread indicates Benedikte will soon turn 75 and on that occasion a portrait book has been published, where family members describe Benedikte as she is as a person.

Benedikte has been described as "the perfect princess". - Also as a child, as QMII explains. When they were girls the siblings dressed up often and while Benedikte's sisters didn't mind dressing wacky, that was not the case for Benedikte! Benedikte always preferred to dress up as a "fine lady" and that's a style she has maintained throughout her life.
She is always correctly, tasteful and stylish in her attire. - That's simply a part of the show when you are a royal!
And if something doesn't match - belt to shoes or whatever - it catches her eyes at once and you can expect a remark!

In fact their mother, Queen Ingrid, described Benedikte as being the "most royal" of her daughters.

And while she is perfectly amiable and good natured when on the job, she firmly believe there should be a thin, very thin, veil between royals and commoners.

Being a Princess with a capital P, manifested itself when she got married to Prince Richard. Around Berleburg rubber boots/wellies was standard footwear - and that took some time getting used to...
She had no idea about - and had absolutely no desire to start - cooking. Not even making coffee. To the astonishment of her new husband.
She was up until then a shy and introvert woman, who had been used all her life to have someone by her side to take care of such practical matters.
So the more relaxed attire around Berleburg was something of a cultural shock to Benedikte.
She has however, according to one daughter, become more "cool" over the past 10-15 years.

Being a royal, and in the Line of Succession, is something Benedikte takes very seriously! When you are a royal you don't just act the part, you are the part! Being a royal is an obligation. So tradition and etiquette is something to take seriously.
QMII has observed that Benedikte perhaps use the "royal veil" as a protection, a shield, when on the job.

- On another note, the tabloid Ekstra Bladet, found an excerpt from the portrait book they managed (by phoning enough royalty-experts until they found someone with quotes they could use... And old trick.) to angle that as criticism of Mary.
Benedikte, who belongs to a generation where you are thrifty, says in the book that royals should be careful not to overspend on their clothes, so that the story becomes about what they wear and not what they do or say. And she also mentioned that royals should be careful not becoming celebrities.
- All of that in my opinion is sound advise, but I fail to see the criticism of Mary in it. On the contrary. Mary is much more regal than her husband.
She is also stylish and very well attired. Aaand combined with their shared love of horses, I don't think the two of them have any problems. ;)

While writing this summary I pondered how much Joachim and Benedikte resemble each other. They are both very much aware of their royal status and maintaining a certain correctness when on the job. As well as being correctly dressed. Joachim could have been Benedikte's son IMO.
The most royal sister and the only one not to become queen...
Thank you for that Muhler, it is very informative. I have been a great admirer of hers for many years.
She has been a steadfast support to her sister quietly going about her business as a dutiful Princess of Denmark as well as a Princess of Sayn Wittgenstein Berleberg. Quite a juggling act for anyone. And yet I believe she is well respected in both Berleberg and Denmark.
On ocassion she has surprised us with some daring flair in her sartorial choice of evening gown.
I just think she is tremendous.
Thank you for the information, Muhler.
I've always liked Benedikte and she's my favourite older member of the DRF after Margrethe. She seems to be a very classy and elegant princess.
You are welcome, ladies. ?

This excerpt from the portrait book is a bit more dramatic!

Back in the 70's Rote Armee Fraktion was, as you may recall, very active, and Prince Richard, and as such also Princess Benedikte, belongs to one of the most prominent noble families in Germany.
There was for a period a genuine fear of being kidnapped.

Benedikte's children explains how they were driven to school in Berleburg (the school is pretty close to Schloss Berleburg) and always by different routes.
One day the police was called when it was noticed that a woman looked a little too long and too interested at Gustav at the school.
Gustav was told not to go out into the school yard anymore and he and his sisters were told not to speak to strangers. (The locals would of course know who they were and would I imagine often say hello or say a few friendly words to the children when meeting them.)

At some point Prince Richard insisted that Benedikte and the children moved to Denmark for a while, where they would be safer.
When they returned home, the precaution about different routes to school was implemented.
He also insisted that Benedikte never drove alone. There should always be a driver. Benedikte however is an excellent driver and she loves to drive, so a driver did accompany her - but with Benedikte behind the wheel.
As it is to this day, Benedikte only has a chauffeur when she's on the job.

- The summary of the BB interview will be posted in separate post, in order not to confuse it with the portrait book, which consists of people talking about Benedikte. While the BB interview is Benedikte talking about herself.

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Summary of interview in Billed Bladet #17, 2019.
Interviewer: Henrik Salling.

BB has always covered Benedikte and her family faithfully and in a positive angle, so it's no wonder Benedikte repays the favor by giving an interview to the magazine. But while the Berleburgs in general are almost infamous for giving shockingly frank interviews, Benedikte is too well-schooled for that.
It's an open interview, but by no means controversial.

The interview took place in Benedikte's apartment at Amalienborg, which our reporter describes in an almost Hemmingway'sk way that I'm almost genuinely sorry to leave out. ?

Born in 1944 Benedikte grew up in a warm family (she can of course not remember the War) where she was used to having photographers around, as the then CP-family was very well-featured in the Danish press - also from "private" moments, like tea-time.
Living basically an upper middle-class life the sister's upbringing was as close to being normal as possible, explains Benedikte.
That included walking to and from school every day. Queen Ingrid was a firm believer in the benefits of walking and fresh air. Something Benedikte agrees with. - QMII as we now know, hated the daily walks.
Apart from that there was no need to waste petrol on driving the girls to school.
It was usually the nannies who took the girls to school and picked them up again, but sometimes mother Ingrid would do that.
Benedikte explains that it was important for their parents that no particular considerations should be made of their children, as such they were also taught to appreciate and be grateful for things and favors done for them. It's important to say thank you, even for small things.
Something today's young may not always do, is the opinion of Benedikte.

Their parents taught them to be considerate to other people and not having too high airs about themselves. - Something Benedikte would also like to see a little more off with certain people today...

While slowly being introduced into the official life of a royal Benedikte concludes that they had a more strict upbringing than average. No skipping home work, no taking the easy way out!
Benedikte has many lovely memories from her childhood, including her dad taking the girls on a drive through the streets of Copenhagen to have a look at the Christmas decorations at the various stores.

She has alsways had a good relationship to her sisters, albeit much closer to Anne-Marie than QMII, because there was only two years between the two youngest. And QMII did learn to ride, but otherwise showed no interest in horses. - Benedikte is very much into horses, as we all know!
However, today she and QMII have a little common project about the kitchen-garden at Gråsten Manor.

In 1966 all young royals in Europe decided to get married! - Okay, perhaps not all, but it was a year with quite a few weddings, and King Frederik IX and Queen Ingrid couldn't attend them all, so they shipped Benedikte off to the wedding between Princess Beatrix and Claus von Amsberg in the Netherlands. And here she met Prince Richard zu Sayn-Wittgenstein-Berleburg. She already did know him through his Swedish family, but during the wedding party she really got to know him better. - And she fell for him!

After the wedding party the two of them exchanged letters. They didn't communicate on the phone, that would have revealed Benedikte, because there were no private phones in the rooms at Amalienborg back then.
She did however mention to her mother, more or less casually, that she had met the son of Margareta von Wittgenstein...

But in the summer of 1966 Queen Ingrid decided to throw a party for her daughters at Gråsten, where they could invite their friends. So having asked her mother whether she could invite Prince Richard, she decided to present him to her family. Being totally smitten by his charm and sense of humor she hoped they would too. - They did. Not least her father.
In Benedikte's eyes, Prince Richard was Swedish through and thorugh. (There was still a good deal of stigma to being German in 1966, not least within the DRF.) She married a Swede and that's how it felt for the first couple of years, not least because the two of them spoke together in Swedish. Later on he learned Danish and Benedikte became fluent in German. (I'll leave it to our resident Germans to judge how good her German is.)
However, moving to Berleburg did not mean that Benedikte should leave the Line of Succession. It was agreed with her father and older sister that she should maintain an active role within the DRF. Not least because QMII had not yet had children.
So Benedikte came to Denmark often and in many way represented the DRF or was Rigsforstander. And that has been a duty Benedikte has always been willing to undertake. To be able to do something for others is never a sour duty.

In 2017 she lost her husband. He came home from a drive through the forests around Berleburg, lay down on his bed, shared by his beloved dogs, fell asleep. And never woke up again.
Benedikte know she was the last one to talk to him. The two of them had been on the phone together, when Richard came home.
Benedikte is glad that "that the light was suddenly just turned off", rather than her husband lingering on in his sickbed for a period, which can be terribly hard for the relatives. (Benedikte is not good at dealing with sick people. She more or less escaped to DK when Prince Richard was seriously ill for the first time with cancer.)
But she does miss him. There are no longer a husband shouting: "Benediiiikte" anymore when he comes home...

But while missing him, the transition to being alone hasn't been so hard on her. After all they were often apart in their married life. Richard often being away on hunts and Benedikte often being in DK. And she reckons that's been pretty beneficial and healthy.

Today, Benedikte is an active mormor, as far as duties and time permits. As such she often picks up her youngest grandchildren, Konstantin and Louisa from school and kindergarten.
Her oldest daughter, Princess Alexandra, now live in Denmark. With her oldest granddaughter now attending Herlufsholm boarding school, where Nikolai also went.
She is asked how she coped with the divorce of Alexandra and Count Jefferson in 2017. And while giving a full and polite answer, Benedikte dodges the question by really not saying anything.
That doesn't mean she never see her oldest grandchildren. Prince Richard is very fond of Copenhagen and he and Comtessa Ingrid sometimes visit Benedikte in her Swiss chalet.

Benedikte is heavily and personally involved in her protections and well informed about news, like osteoporosis. Something her mother undoubtedly suffered from, even though she was never diagnosed.
And she has no plans about retirement, she's happy with doing her duties as they are, feeling that she makes a difference.

And you can find the scans to the interview here:
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benedikte mentioned in her book how she thinks royalty should not behave like a celebrity and also how they shouldn't spend too much money on expensive clothes. she doesn't mention names, but some suggest she may be referring to mary in her own family, or meghan in the UK (as they report having spent 800-900 thousand pounds in just clothes during her maternity period).

article below:
Thank you Muhler. It is great to read her interview. Its lovely yo read she is active with her grandkids, I'm sure they love it.

Very thoughtful her words but of course the tabloids love to sell stories with different angles.
Happy Birthday to Princess Benedikte.
She is the most elegant of all and I love how she styles herself in a non extravagant way.
It's true that she draws attention to her work, her topics of engagement and charities.
Benedikte's work is of interest more so than her fashion label.
Older royals seem better at this.
I have admiration for Benedikte and I will read the book and enjoy it.

On April 24 Princess Benedikte posed for some birthday portraits at her apartment at Amalienborg Palace:

** Pic ** belga gallery **
Happy Birdthday, Princess Benedikte :flowers:
Hard to believe that Benedikte is 75 :ohmy: She seem to have lots of energy and looks of someone decades younger. I guess spending time with her grandchildren help to keep energetic and active. She also looks very classy and elegant. I also like how she has maintained an active role within the DRF and I'm very happy that she has no plans about retirement.
Looking forward to the Gala dinner tonight at the Amalienborg Palace.
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Her Majesty the Queen
His Royal Highness The Crown Prince
Her Royal Highness The Crown Princess
Her Royal Highness Princess Benedict
Her Majesty Queen Anne-Marie
Her Highness Princess Alexandra at Sayn-Wittgenstein-Berleburg
Chamberlain, Count Michael Ahlefeldt-Laurvig-Bille
Her Highness Princess Nathalie zu Sayn-Wittgenstein-Berleburg

That's odd.

Where is Joachim and our Marie?
There seem to be a few missing nieces and nephews including Joachim /Marie,the Greeks ?
BB offers an explanation.

Joachim had to decline because he had to do some shooting for a documentary that could not be postponed.

- I still find this odd.
Why couldn't our Marie attend then? She's not involved in the documentary.
And Gustav and Carina?!?

I suspect they are perhaps planning a surprise for Benedikte.

Yeah, I am not buying it. ... Plus after more then 10 years as a princess, Marie can certainly attend this event on her own.

It's not just any other birthday, its the 75th! lots of years of service to the DRF

gallery from tonight
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