I like the girl and I pity the way she lives her life right now, buried in Bucklebury when she had gone to university in the hope that one day the world would be open to her.
The World
is open to her.
She has the money, the time on her hands, the independence. She has all the opportunities in the World and a thick Rolodex full of important names that would act as a sesame wherever she goes.
So it is obvious the way she lives her life is her choice and her choice only.
She is the one who chose not to have a career, she is the one who chose to put her boyfriend before herself (the reason she didn't want a demanding job -call that flexibility if you must- was because she wanted to be available for William), she is the one who chose not to pursue further education (now that would have been a non controversial, meaningful way to wait for an engagement, but she might have had to miss a couple of polo matches and club nights...), she is the one who is 'burying' herself in the country-side.
Even in the improbable case William asked that of her, could she not have grown a spine and told him she would live her life as she wanted and if he were not happy with that he could find himself another girl willing to deal with his baggage?
Chance is she loves her life right now and never had any other ambitions beside marry well, go on holidays a couple of times a years and occasionally look pretty at some social events. Based on what she has done (or rather didn't do) so far, it makes more sense than portraying her as a frustrated girl stringed along by her 'evil' boyfriend.
For all we know, the two of them could have some sort of private understanding at this point.
I am afraid a private understanding is worthless as it can be recanted at any time. Yeah, that would make William a cad but the first word that pops into my head when I think of him isn't gentleman.
1) Replacing the monarch as head of state with an elected president (the usual alternative!) is not perceived by most British people as a better alternative, else we would have had a republic by now.
As D of M rightfully said, the Monarchy will never be seriously challenged during Elizabeth's lifetime. Charles' reign will be short so I don't see anything happening there either. Let's wait and see what happens during William's reign...
2) The last aristocrat to marry into the royal family was Diana.... and we all know where that ended up!
And before Diana there was Philip and before that there was the Queen mother and before that there was Mary, etc.
Why put forward the one example of a disastrous royal/aristocratic bride and ignore the many examples of successful ones.
Diana was mentally and emotionally unbalanced. You can find women like that in any social classes.
I do believe in the importance of bloodlines if I was buying a prized pig, but when it comes to human relationships, IMO it is people that matter, not their ancestry. If Kate and Will are happy, and she has the "right" qualities, I am sure she will make a good consort.
Yes but we are talking about a system based wholly on the principles of heredity, bloodline, birth-right, class system and privileges.
They have to bring more to the table that just being nice, normal, happy people. There are plenty nice, normal, happy people around, they don't get bowed at nor live a life of tax-funded privileges.
3) As to comments about William and Kate being dull, I have to say that QE2 has probably been one of the dullest people on the public stage
People don't think the Queen is boring because they don't expect to be entertained by her.
She has never descended to the level of show-business stars with tell-alls, vindictiveness, public display of petulance, self-indulgence, drunkenness, abuse of her position, etc. She has never seek ' normality' and has always been utterly royal so is judged by other standards than her own son and grandsons.
Dignity, a flawless track record of public service and her ability of keeping an aura of mystery and mystique around her mean she has the respect and admiration of her people, so she can go on with her 'what do you do?' for another ten years without anybody complaining.