This actually reminds me of something else I wanted to post that I found strange. Harry seems to have quite a lot of personal contempt for his squadron commander in Afghanistan.
He writes:
"Every kill was on video. The Apache saw all. The camera in its nose recorded all. So, after every mission, there would be a careful review of that video. Returning to Bastion, we’d walk into the gun tape room, slide the video into a machine, which would project the kill onto wall-mounted plasma TVs. Our squadron commander would press his face against the screens, examining, murmuring—wrinkling his nose. He wasn’t merely looking for errors, this chap, he was hungry for them. He wanted to catch us in a mistake. We called him awful names when he wasn’t around. We came close to calling him those names to his face. Look, whose side are you on? But that was what he wanted. He was trying to provoke us, to get us to say the unspeakable. Why? Jealousy, we decided. It ate him up inside that he’d never pulled a trigger in battle. He’d never attacked the enemy. So he attacked us. Despite his best efforts, he never found anything irregular in any of our kills. I was part of six missions that ended in the taking of human life, and they were all deemed justified by a man who wanted to crucify us. I deemed them the same. What made the squadron commander’s attitude so execrable was this: He was exploiting a real and legitimate fear. A fear we all shared. Afghanistan was a war of mistakes, a war of enormous enormous collateral damage—thousands of innocents killed and maimed, and that always haunted us. So my goal from the day I arrived was never to go to bed doubting that I’d done the right thing, that my targets had been correct, that I was firing on Taliban and only Taliban, no civilians nearby. I wanted to return to Britain with all my limbs, but more, I wanted to go home with my conscience intact. Which meant being aware of what I was doing, and why I was doing it, at all times."
To me, this indicates that Harry did not understand that his squadron commander was not only doing his job, he was looking out for his team by holding them to such high standards that when they got out, they could look back confident that they hadn't made mistakes. He sees it as cruelty. This is a repeated theme, Harry thinking someone is out to get him when it seems clear that person was either doing their job or actively trying to help him.
Harry, The Duke of Sussex, Prince. Spare (p. 216-217). Random House Publishing Group. Kindle Edition.