... Meghan either commits to being a British royal, living in Britain and raising children in Britain or she should never have returned Harry's call when they first started. Some kind of muddled, hybrid melding of Meghan the US actress with Meghan the British royal is doomed to fail.
She must understand this and accept it. If she doesn't this marriage has no chance and I would hope that Charles, the Queen etc. will have told Harry that.
LOL at the admonishing tone directed toward Meghan regarding what she must accept and what the Brits will not stand for from her and Harry. Such overweening responses to speculative comments by people who are not Meghan nor Harry are so amusing.
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Otherwise, I completely agree with many of the concerns expressed regarding the difficulties of marriage, coupled with the challenges of life in the royal fishbowl. But I also agree with the observation that Meghan is smart, capable, very much in love, and that she and Harry have long since discussed all manner of things we will never be privy to. It occurs to me that they meant what they said in the engagement interview. Prince Harry:
"We make a great team and we know it. Meghan will be amazing." Meghan:
"I've ticked off that box [acting career success]. This is a new chapter." Harry:
"It's a new challenge. There's a lot to do."
I also have never forgotten that Meghan once said pre-Harry that she likes to "exceed expectations," and that she's "endlessly ambitious." Those are positive qualities to possess btw. If you know what you want and have a good idea of where you want to be and work hard at developing a roadmap, while being prepared for obstacles along the way, and have enough gumption and chutzpah to never give up, success is likely on your horizon. ?
We are all on the outside looking in, speculating, guessing and surmizing. The proof will be in the pudding of the royal wedding aftermath. It will all be entertaining to watch, but none of us are invited, especially not to the after-receptions nor to any Palace private quarters. Meanwhile, everything coming from the media, from former tattling acquaintances, regrettable relations, and starry-eyed or side-eyeing observers is probably best taken with huge grains of salt.
It strikes me that Meghan is happy and more than willing to take on the demanding challenges that come with some enviable royal perks. Just as Meghan has never been poverty-stricken, I doubt that she's ever been bored either. She's a go-getter, a giver, an achiever, and someone who enjoys living life to its fullest.
As someone said earlier, H&M seem almost unbelievably well-matched. Harry said,
"The stars aligned when we met." Many psychics, astrologers, and tarot readers agree. Harry and Meghan seem made for each other, although of course the challenges ahead of them will not be easy. Nothing worthwhile ever is.