[font=verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif]This is absolutely heartbreakening. Now one can see what Chelsy is reallly like and how Harry really feels about Camilla Parker Bowles.
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06/02/05 - News section [/font]
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It's the Army or me, Harry...
By BARBARA JONES, Mail on Sunday [/font]
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Prince Harry's girlfriend has told him to forget about joining the Army so he can spend more time with her. [/font]
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Chelsy Davy issued the ultimatum after he said he was unable to visit her in South Africa soon because of family pressure. [/font]
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She told him: "It's me or the British Army - you can't have both." [/font]
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She brought their relationship to a head with a temper tantrum, phoning him in a fury and telling him: "If you really love me you'll refuse to join the Army. [/font]
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"You don't have to do it - it's just family pressure. This is a time when we should be seeing more of each other, not less. If you go to Sandhurst we'll never see each other. You're letting the Royal Family run your life. [/font]
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"Look what they're doing to you right now, forcing you to stay at home and be a dutiful son when you and I could be together." [/font]
[font=verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif]She goaded him about a 'pointless' career as an Army officer, saying he would turn out just like Prince Andrew. [/font]
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Blonde Chelsy, 19, who has a huge personal allowance from her wealthy family and the freedom to live life as she chooses at a house she shares with her brother Shaun and other students in Cape Town, admits to having no concept of the restrictions Harry lives under. [/font]
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Despite spelling out to her many times that he has been groomed as a possible future King and has duties way beyond those of most young men, Chelsy apparently refuses to listen. [/font]
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Chelsy unimpressed by costume fuss [/font]
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She told friends last week that he was behaving like a 'wuss' by allowing himself to be grounded at Highgrove after the fuss over his wearing a Nazi officer's uniform at a fancy-dress party. [/font]
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And it transpired that Harry, 20, called Chelsy from the costume rental shop when he was choosing an outfit - and she encouraged him to go for the swastika look. [/font]
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"She can't see what all the fuss is about," a close friend told The Mail on Sunday. "She didn't find the Nazi uniform offensive. What really upset her was learning he'd spent the party with a pretty brunette on his lap." [/font]
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In a fit of petulance last Saturday, Chelsy made a public display of revenge by sitting on a male friend's lap throughout the glamorous J&B Met horse race in Cape Town. [/font]
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"Her manipulations are pushing her romance with Harry to the edge," said her friend. "She's livid that she has some spare time until her university term starts on February 21 and he is not due to go to Sandhurst until May, yet there are no plans to be together because Harry is virtually under house arrest at Highgrove." [/font]
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Harry has apparently tried to calm Chelsy during long, emotional phone calls, promising he will find a way to see her soon. [/font]
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He is even said to have promised to try to set up a 'charity trip' to Africa so that he could sneak off to be with her. But Chelsy told him he has until Valentine's Day to make a romantic tryst, or it's all off. [/font]
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Rumours of arrogance [/font]
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Frightened that she had pushed things too far, she was yesterday in tears at home. She and a girlfriend spent the morning shouting insults at each other, fuelling rumours that Chelsy has alienated many chums with her arrogance over Harry and her view of herself as a future Royal. [/font]
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A friend who witnessed the row said the house was in uproar, with the girls crying and screaming. [/font]
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"We all call her Princess Chelsy and she's been loving it," said the friend. "She even has an inner circle who have sworn some silly oath about loyalty. They call themselves the Princess Circle. [/font]
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"But now we think Chelsy's losing it. She's realised that Harry has to put his family first and she can't take it. Like Princess Diana, she thought she could take priority and that's not possible. [/font]
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"She calls Prince Charles 'Big Ears' and jokes that he doesn't need a plane to fly. And she said in front of Harry that it would be fun to have a dartboard with his father's picture on it. She shows him no respect. [/font]
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"She used to boast that she taught Harry all he knew about satisfying a woman, and that wasn't respectful either." [/font]
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Harry may have unwittingly played into Chelsy's hands by telling her too much about his family. He confided in her that life could be tortuous with the senior Royals. [/font]
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Public appearance lecture [/font]
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He described how he and Prince William were given a stern lecture the day before their mother's funeral. A Royal aide apparently told them: "You may feel like crying but you must not show it. If you feel tears are coming you must lower your head or move behind one of the other mourners." [/font]
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Harry told Chelsy that he felt this was an early test of dealing with public appearances, and said it was heartbreaking. [/font]
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According to Chelsy's friend, Harry also said he felt Prince Charles had become remote since openly acknowledging his relationship with Camilla Parker-Bowles. "He said she looked halfway between a horse and a goat, but he loves horses so he calls her The Goat." [/font]
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Harry was apparently upset that it was his older brother who remonstrated with him over the Nazi uniform stunt, passing on his father's disapproval second-hand. [/font]
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"Prince Charles was just too busy with his mistress to be at his son's side at that time," said the friend. "He felt very rejected over that." [/font]
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Recent reports of Chelsy's dopesmoking while on holiday in Mozambique have added to the Royals' disapproval of her. And William has told his brother: "You know a girl like Chelsy isn't right for you. You need someone more like us." [/font]
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