Diana and the Media

[Mermaid1962]

You're right, Denville. I was responding to the comment about the Queen meeting the press, not that the comment was specifically about criticism.

That wasn't because of criticism of Diana, rather the contrary. It was because the Press were so interested in Di, that she was feeling pressured by their constalty being around...

 

[Denville]

It was unprecedented because the queen didn't usually do tings like that, but the Press had been very intrusive on Diana, because she was so popular. the public loved stories abouther, no matter how silly or banal.. so she was feeling pressured...

 

[Rayal]

The idea that Charles Spencer abandoned his sister in her hour need has become an accepted part of the canon. I am so happy that he finally stepped up and exposed it for the lie that it is

The media have had it in for this man ever since he lashed out at them when Diana died. Good on Earl Spencer for fighting back.

Going back in time when I first heard of this I really didn't know much about the Earl. I knew about his eulogy as I had watched it live, and I had thought he had it spot on about his sister Diana and especially the media. However over time as I had taken a great interest in him, and as the media put out their lies something didn't seem to fit. To me he seemed like a good person, and I had read a couple of his books and knew he was 'the smart one' as Diana had put it.


So now after reading this new account of trash media, fake news, or yellow journalism it bolsters my negative opinion of these rotten media outlets. Yes, all for the mighty pound/dollar to feed their machine, they take the truth and sprinkle it with lies, assumptions, and accusations. There are plenty of customers who love this phony drama, shame on them as well.


So when I wonder what entity is out there that can force them to tell the truth and stop all this nonsense, there really isn't anyone. The politicians have to walk on egg shells around the media or they don't get reelected.



Its a vicious machine, and now what hurts them the most is the 'TRUTH'. Its too bad that it has taken this long for the truth to finally come out.

 

[Moonmaiden23]

The problem is that Diana DID play dangerous games with tabloid journalists and paparazzi. She leaked stories, giving the paps a heads up on where she would be, and even feeding them falsehoods when it suited her.

She was not completely blameless in nurturing the beast that eventually helped to destroy her.

 

[Rayal]

The problem is that Diana DID play dangerous games with tabloid journalists and paparazzi. She leaked stories, giving the paps a heads up on where she would be, and even feeding them falsehoods when it suited her.

She was not completely blameless in feeding the beast that eventually helped to destroy her.

Yes, I think she was naive at first but as time went on through constant aggravation she did start to play head games with them, and basically tried to use them when possible good or bad. Both her butler Paul Burrell and her personal body guard Ken Warfe in their books alluded to her doing this. Ken Warfe even warned her, same as others, that she could be playing with fire.

 

[Sandy345]

The problem is that Diana DID play dangerous games with tabloid journalists and paparazzi. She leaked stories, giving the paps a heads up on where she would be, and even feeding them falsehoods when it suited her.

She was not completely blameless in nurturing the beast that eventually helped to destroy her.

I disagree. She experienced the same thing Jackie Onassis did. The paparazzi were ruthless--Jackie did go to press who were sympathetic to her but took those who stalked her especially Ron Galella to court.
. Diana spoke to journalists in the media that she felt sympathetic to her to get "her side out". She had to get her side out since there were stories leaked about her to the media
(as I recall very well). She certainly did not "court" paparazzi and cameras pursuing her-especially since they hounded and and swore at her when she did not cooperate and pose for them. I remember how protective she was on a ski trip with her sons and walked right up to a camera blocking the lens with her hand. The night in Paris, the Fayeds employees tried to divert the paparazzi, Diana did not have anything to do with that. She did not nurture the ones who chased her on their motorbikes. Nor the ones who swore at her.

Stunking Regarding the seatbelt, Diana had always buckled up. I always found it odd that one night she did not buckle up. Her sisters said the same thing. There was a bodyguard now amnesiac that can't explain why he let Henri Paul get behind the wheel nor did he check the seatbelts. Diana should not in any way be held responsible for that tragic night. There were Unfortunate circumstances like her bleeding to death and being placed in a slow ambulance that bypassed another hospital 10 minutes away and taking a long time to get her on the operating table, was a major cause of her death. Had she been in another country, it might have been that she got coptered out to a hospital STAT. Some heart specialists like Dr. Barnard did make comments that she could have been saved had she gotten to tht ambulance in time.

Diana used the press to get her side out, otherwise all people would hear was the accusations against her by those not in sympathy with her.

Diana's death had nothing to do with her seeking out people in the press. They were people like Whitaker and Kay who would not pursue Diana in motorbikes. In fact in that famous eulogy Charles Spencer blamed the paparazzi and called Diana the "hunted." He blamed them clearly.

Diana and her brother DID have a falling out over the cottage. She wanted the cottage he offered her but he changed his mind. She was hurt. They did make up though.

 

[Moonmaiden23]

Would you mind providing examples of when Jackie Kennedy Onassis made late night phone calls to her favorite tabloid journalists providing personal info to them? Or gave them heads up on where she and her children would be dining or vacationing? Or confided intimate details of her distress at JFK's many infidelities to tabloid favorites and the pressure she felt after marrying into the Kennedy clan?

Diana did all of the above and more. And unlike JBK she never took a paparazzo to court for harrassment.

Diana wanted to live on the Althorp estate in the wake of her divorce and separation. Her brother initially agreed then withdrew the offer fearing that the paps would descend and create a circus. He did not want the intrusion upon the privacy of his young family. In retrospect I can't say that I blame him.

He did offer his sister the use of another Spencer property ...the 16th century Wormleighton Manor House which Diana rejected.

 

[Sandy345]

I would not know that re: Jackie. But she did confide in journalists and writers and did give interviews--privately
. It was a different age as well.

Diana obviously did not want the paparazzi near her children. There are photos to prove it. She and the boys were on ski trips and she'd spot the paparazzi and tell them to leave it's all out there. She and Charles would allow photographs of the children and set this up ahead of time. Like the photos of their vacations together for example.

Diana may well have taken them to court had she lived, She had a small window of life after the divorce. It was an evolving situation.

Her brother should have been more judicious and considered the conditions before he made it seem he was offering her the cottage. Diana does not to be blamed exclusively for this. He also contributed to the problem but they did resolve it. Diana for whatever reason did not want the other cottage. I have no idea why and she never said publicly. But it was the place she would live and it was her choice if she did not like it as much. I don't think she rejected it on a "whim."

 

[Moonmaiden23]

The difference is that on the very rare occasions when Jackie confided in journalists it was because they were personal friends of hers. And it was always with the caveat that if any information ever made it into the public domain, the journalist friend would be cut out of her life. Forever.

That is what happened to former Newsweek editor and Washington Post legend the late Benjamin Bradlee. He wrote a book about his friendship with Jackie and JFK "Conversations With Kennedy" in which he repeated intimate details of what Jackie told him about the assassination among other things.

On the other hand Diana talked to her friends in the press mainly with the intention of getting her "side" out there and to influence public opinion in her favor.

I am not shading Diana at all. I devoured everything about her and have never been quite as interested in the BRF since her death.

But the hard fact is that she was the architect of a great deal of her problems with the tabloids.

May she RIP.

 

[Sandy345]

I think that was the only recourse Diana had. She was getting flak from those who were critical of her and her husband's friends like Nicholas Soames were out there in the media. The problems with the tabloids was like a which came first scenario. It seems to me her critics were out there first going to the tabloids and she responded. So the onus should be put on those who first leaked those stories. IMO anyway. The royals have been enmeshed in issues with the tabs since time immemorial. This was hardly the first incidence of it.

 

[TLLK]

The problem is that Diana DID play dangerous games with tabloid journalists and paparazzi. She leaked stories, giving the paps a heads up on where she would be, and even feeding them falsehoods when it suited her.

She was not completely blameless in nurturing the beast that eventually helped to destroy her.

Good points Moonmaiden23. Sadly Diana's own participation in alerting/leaking both true and false stories was a very dangerous game.

 

[Denville]

Would you mind providing examples of when Jackie Kennedy Onassis made late night phone calls to her favorite tabloid journalists providing personal info to them? Or gave them h
Diana wanted to live on the Althorp estate in the wake of her divorce and separation. Her brother initially agreed then withdrew the offer fearing that the paps would descend and create a circus. He did not want the intrusion upon the privacy of his young family. In retrospect I can't say that I blame him.

He did offer his sister the use of another Spencer property ...the 16th century Wormleighton Manor House which Diana rejected.

Diana didn't want to live on the estate. She wanted a weekend home for the boys to do their country sports but the house she liked, which he initially agreed to, was too close to the perimeter fence and he withdrew the offer, suggesting other houses. But Diana was upset and wouldn't consider them.

 

[Sandy345]

Diana was a nineteen year old when she got engaged to Charles. She had her first walkabout with Charles and the public took to her before the wedding. She confessed that she was scared and nervous at her first tour (Wales) but got out the car after being reluctant to do so. The public took to her and she was a natural. She wanted to please her husband and his family and not be a "failure." Charles was bothered by it, which i think was His issue not hers. If she was unfriendly or stand offish with the pubic she'd have been criticized by the media and by the public. Later on as the marriage imploded, both went to the media to get their respective sides out. But Diana IMO was very sincere as a young woman and was not out to "overshadow" but trying to please her husband.

 

[TLLK]

The difference is that on the very rare occasions when Jackie confided in journalists it was because they were personal friends of hers. And it was always with the caveat that if any information ever made it into the public domain, the journalist friend would be cut out of her life. Forever.

That is what happened to former Newsweek editor and Washington Post legend the late Benjamin Bradlee. He wrote a book about his friendship with Jackie and JFK "Conversations With Kennedy" in which he repeated intimate details of what Jackie told him about the assassination among other things.

On the other hand Diana talked to her friends in the press mainly with the intention of getting her "side" out there and to influence public opinion in her favor.

I am not shading Diana at all. I devoured everything about her and have never been quite as interested in the BRF since her death.

But the hard fact is that she was the architect of a great deal of her problems with the tabloids.

May she RIP.

You are absolutely correct Moonmaiden23 in regards to Diana being the architect of many of her problems with the tabloids. I am sorry that she was engaged in them at the end of her life.

May she rest in peace.

 

[Queen Claude]

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