Yes, of course. I was trying to express that my hope is they will indeed (be able to) have children as that is not a given and because that is clearly what
they want; and it was Harry who had the clear timeline in mind with his 'one step at a time' (only the 'in the near future' was a quote, the second part was a summary of what he also implied). Sorry, if I was confusing and you read something else into my statement as I was just wishing them well. I would hope nobody would wish for them not to have children as they are clear about their desire to start a family - but being realistic: it's not guaranteed, so
I hope it turns out the way they hope (i.e., 'that way').
So, I think we actually agree