July 22, 1535 birth of Catherine Stenbock, third wife of Gustav I of Sweden.
Catherine was the daughter of Riksråd Gustaf Olofsson Stenbock. She was born in Torpa, Vastergotland. Little is known of her childhood or life before her marriage to the king.
She was most likely at court as a lady in waiting to the king's second wife Margaret Leijonhufvud. Queen Margaret was Catherine's Aunt, the sister of her mother Brita. Margaret and Brita's mother was the second cousin of the king, and their father was from one of the most powerful noble families of the time. Because of her place as the queen's niece her family was part of what was called the 'royal relations' and would have been involved at events at court. When her aunt died in 1551, her mother and her mother's sister Martha were appointed to over see the raising of Margaret's kids until the king remarried.
In March 1522 the king met with his Aunts as well as nephew to discus his future marriage. He needed a queen for his court and a mother to his young children. He proposed marrying Catherine, who may have been betrothed at the time already. Her family wished to continue their relations with the king and approved the match. He had to propose to Catherine at her family home as she was required to give consent. Story has it she hid from him in the garden but she eventually was married to him.
There was opposition from the church to the marriage. The archbishop believed it wrong that he marry his wife's niece. But they quoted the old testament. The king brought a commission forward that argued that the old testament only applied to Jews. And allowed for a man to marry his widow's sister so a niece should be allowed. Also that it was a marriage based on needing a queen, and not of some physical desire.
They were married August 22, 1552 when she was 17. Unfortunately there were a lot of bad omens including plague in the area. After they left the city where they wed after three days of celebrations, the city burned down.
Gustav was born in 1496 and was 55 when he was widowed. His first wife Catherine of Saxe-Lauenburg died in 1535 and he married Margaret in 1536. He had 11 children from his two previous wives, one son from his first wife and 10 children from Margaret.
her stepchildren:
-Eric (only child of his first wife): became Eric XIV. He married Karin Månsdotter and had four children (as well as bastards with a few mistresses).
-John(oldest of Margaret's) became Duke of Finland. succeeded Eric as John III. Had three kids with Catherine Jagellonica of Poland and a son with Gunilla Bielke.
-Katarina: married Edzard II, Count of East Frisia who she had 10 children.
-Cecilia: married Christopher II, Margrave of Baden-Rodemachern. no kids.
-Magnus: Duke of Östergötland. never married
-Carl: died in infancy
-Anna: married Georg Johann, the Count Palatine of Veldenz. 11 kids.
-Sten: died at age one
-Sofia: married Magnus II, Duke of Saxe-Lauenburg had one son.
-Elisabet: married Christopher, Duke of Mecklenburg. one daughter.
-Charles: duke of Sodermanland. Succeeded his nephew Sigismund as Charles IX of Sweden. Had 6 kids with Anna Marie of Palatinate-Simmern and 4 with Christina of Holstein-Gottorp.
At the time of her marriage, all but Eric were minors though John was 15. She as only 2 years older then John and 4 years older then Katarina. Her youngest stepchild Charles was turning 2.
Catherine and her husband would have no children to add to the nursery.
Her main role as queen was to supervise the women at court, and her step children's upbringing. The girls she had management of until they wed and the boys until they were adults. She had a good relationship with them all except for the youngest Charles.
In 1559 scandal erupted when her stepdaughter Katarina was leaving with her husband Edzard. They were accompanied by his brother John and her sister Cecilia. Unfortunately their siblings were found in a sexual encounter by Eric. Katarina and her husband were placed under house arrest, John was imprisoned and Cecilia was sent to her father. Catherine was called on to intercede on more then once occasion for her stepchildren. Eventually Katarina and her husband were allowed to go to Frisia, and with some help from Elizabeth I, John escaped death and was able to return home.
The scandal was too much for the king who fell ill. She is said to have nursed him during his illness. He died September 29, 1560 at the age of 64.
The king had his two eldest sons agree to grant her the monies from several estates when he died. Strömsholm became her home for the remainder of her life. She was the first queen of Sweden to be titled Dowager Queen.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Strömsholm
She had a good relationship with Eric, and served as the senior lady of court for him during much of his reign. She remained a widow for the remainder of her life, continuing to wear mourning until the day she died.
She helped to create peace between Eric and John, and when Eric fell ill she was said to have helped bring him back to sanity.
Unfortunately during the war of the Dukes, Eric imprisoned his stepmother and stepsisters. He threatened to hand them over to Ivan the Terrible who was his ally, or burn his sisters alive. Some of this may have been false, or exaggerated as it was used for grounds by John to depose to his half brother. Catherine was named guardian of Eric's children when Eric and his wife were imprisoned, and Eric credited her for saving his life from execution after he had been deposed.
Under John, her stepson Charles tried to claim her lands as they were in his duchy. It was settled that her lands would be exchanged for lands in Aland which was better for her as they were more profitable.
She had considered a marriage to Francis II of Saxe-Lauenburg who was a brother in law of her daughter in law Sophie but his brother stopped it.
She spent her last years over seeing her estates as she was crippled by age and unable to come to court. She was close with her sisters and was a refuge for other female members of the family on her estate. She was seen as a go between for the peasants and the royals.
She died in 1621 at the age of 86 after 61 years as a widow. She was buried in Upsala Cathedral but had no monument of her own.
The poor of Sweden were said to have lost 'their mother' when she died.