Eve2Eden
Aristocracy
- Joined
- May 25, 2004
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- 113
I feel sorry for PV. Even if she hasn't been trying for a baby yet it must be awful to have this discussed in the media on almost a daily basis. The pressure to get pregnant must feel huge.
Definitely! It would be hard enough to be subjected to that sort of scrutiny and gossip under normal circumstances, but imagine how hard it would be if you were having trouble conceiving, or had suffered a miscarriage, or so on?
If I were in that situation, I could see myself getting so exhausted and stressed that I would finally just "give in" and have a baby right away, even if it wasn't my original plan, just to avoid the speculation!
Maybe it would be better to just lay it all out right from the beginning, at the engagement: "Yes, we hope to have children, but we don't intend to start our family for two or three years." Much as I would dislike discussing something so personal in public, it would probably be preferable to living with constant rumors for years on end...