Crown Prince Frederik of Denmark and Mary Donaldson: May 14, 2004


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Mary's Bridal Bouquet Placed On Mother's Grave

"When Crown Princess Mary threw her bridal bouquet over her shoulder before leaving Fredensborg, it was caught by her great-aunt Margaret Cunningham (née Donaldson). She passed it on to the sister of Mary's mother, who brought it to Scotland the day after the wedding and placed it on the shared grave of Mary's mother and maternal grandparents. A nice gesture."

Photo of Bridal Bouquet:
https://www.billedbladetnet.dk/adm/pics/000053buket.jpg

Source: Stig From The Scandinavian Royals Message Board

May 19, 2004 - Scotsman
Written By: Julia Horton

Watching My Niece Become A Princess

For a few brief days, East Lothian pensioner Margaret Cunningham rubbed shoulders with the likes of the Earl of Wessex, walked on red carpets and attended lavish state banquets. Now back at home - a terraced house in Port Seton, the village where she has lived all her life - she is still incredulous at her few days as a VIP at the royal wedding of her great-niece to real-life Danish prince.

From the moment she set foot on Danish soil last Tuesday, 75-year-old Margaret was treated like a queen. Sitting in an armchair in her modest sitting room, surrounded by mementoes of the fairytale wedding and enjoying a well-earned celebratory drink, she says: "We flew out of Edinburgh and when we arrived in Copenhagen, we did not even go through customs."

"We were given VIP badges to wear and security things around our necks and we were whisked off straight away in the royal bus with princes and goodness knows who else with us." A police escort accompanied the bus which took Margaret to a historic hotel "just down the road from the palace" used by the Danish royal family to accommodate guests.

The next few days were a blur of official visits to famous castles and museums as Margaret and her family were treated to a prestigious tour of the country by their royal hosts. Mary had invited Margaret, who was widowed 18 years ago, as the oldest surviving member of the Donaldson family, although the pair had only met on a couple of occasions. Mrs Cunningham’s brother, Peter, was Mary’s grandfather, and her father, John, and her uncle, Peter, who both emigrated as young men, are her nephews. "They [the Danish royal family] were so hospitable. I could not fault them. The queen obviously adores Mary, she adores her whole family."

And then the day that she, and the rest of the world, had been waiting for, finally came. "Mary fever" has been raging in Denmark since news of her royal engagement to Danish Crown Prince Frederik was announced last October, and she has become a style icon both there and in her native land of Australia, where her father emigrated to from Scotland before she was born. Crowds of well-wishers, tens of thousands-strong lined the streets to catch a glimpse of the prince and his bride on their wedding day last Friday. As Margaret and her family arrived at the stunning Copenhagen Cathedral, they were more than a little daunted to receive the red carpet treatment themselves.

Margaret says: "I got out of the royal bus and there was a big red carpet at the side of the cathedral. There were crowds of people - the Danish people all love Mary. They were wonderfully welcoming. It was a long walk along the red carpet. It’s a big thing to do for ordinary people. I had to meet all the dignitaries as well." Inside, the Lothians pensioner was shown to her seat - in the second row from the front, as befitted her new-found status as a Very Important Person. "I was so close I could nearly touch Frederik. And Prince Edward [The Earl of Wessex] was at the back of me! We were obviously family but it was strange to be in front of British royalty."

As with many weddings, there were tears of joy during the ceremony, including a few from the Prince himself, who is renowned for his "common" touch. "They [the Danish royal family] are a very emotional family. I saw the prince had a tear in his eye. We all did a lot of crying," says Margaret. "It was wonderful. Mary looked gorgeous in her dress. I think she was born to be a princess." The reception, in a vast marquee at Fredensborg Palace on the outskirts of Copenhagen, was an eextravagant affair. Hundreds of waiters flitted to and fro, with platters laden with food for the sumptuous three-course wedding banquet.

"There were around 500 waiters - they marched in like an army. The food was wonderful, there were beautiful flowers everywhere. There were gold chairs and I was sitting next to kings! I could not believe it," says Margaret. Peter Donaldson, Mary’s uncle, who travelled to Copenhagen from Edinburgh for the wedding with Margaret but lives in Tasmania, Australia, was also over-awed. Sitting near Margaret in her living room, he adds: "I’m a builder, not a prince! But we were almost turned into royalty overnight. The Danish royal family could not have treated us better. The marquee was as big as a soccer pitch. The wines were from the queen’s husband’s private bin from his own vineyard in France."

Mary’s father, John, who emigrated from Scotland to Tasmania, and Peter both added a touch of Scotland to proceedings by dressing in kilts for the occasion - to the delight of the Danes. Peter smiles: "They loved the kilts - they could not believe we were wearing them." Recalling the speeches, Margaret says proudly: "John gave a wonderful speech. He said in his speech that he had three daughters and all of them were princesses, but now this one [Mary] was a real one." But perhaps the most poignant reminder of Mary’s Scottish roots was a picture of Port Seton harbour with a fishing boat that her grandfather used to sail, given to her as a wedding present by Margaret. "She was really touched, she loved the picture. We were all quite emotional," Margaret says.

It is a Danish tradition that the bride and groom must dance the Wedding Waltz just before midnight - or they will be turned into a pumpkin. Mary and her prince obliged, while hundreds of guests formed a circle around them, gradually moving closer and closer until they were so near that the couple could no longer move - another Danish tradition. Margaret, who had been standing near the back of the crowd at the time, recalls a passing "prince charming" of her own who came to her aid. She says: "I was standing at the back when all of a sudden a gentleman, I don’t know if he was a duke or someone, said to everyone: ‘This lady is family, let her through to the front’, and I got to the front! I could not believe it."

After the dancing, the Danish Royal Family put on a spectacular display of fireworks which burst to form heart shapes in the night sky. The revelries continued long into the night as the guests celebrated Denmark’s most high-society wedding for decades. Margaret recalls: "I did not get back to my hotel until 4.30am." The next day Margaret and her relations were invited to the Palace for a private brunch. While they were there, the queen sent word for them to join her in person for lunch, so Margaret, Peter and their relations were once more rubbing shoulders with royalty. "The queen was there, and the King of Norway. I am not an intellectual so I just listened mainly, but they were lovely, very friendly and welcoming, especially the queen."

Peter remembers how, like countless little girls around the world, Mary - who met her prince in Sydney through mutual friends - used to pretend she was a princess as a child. He says: "When she was a little girl she used to go into her mother’s bedroom, dress up in her clothes and heels and jewellery and come out and strut about like she was a princess. She loved it. Now she is a princess." Not many girls fulfil that dream. But lying on the coffee table in Margaret’s living room is a gold coin featuring the heads of Mary and her Prince - a solid reminder of her new status as a real-life royal.

Margaret is also keeping the VIP badges which she had to wear during her week-long visit to Denmark. After getting back home this Monday, Margaret has been inundated with visits from friends and relations all keen to hear about her royal experience. And while she says her life will now return to normal, a little part of her will miss being a virtual royal: "As the week went on I thought: ‘I could get used to this’," she laughs. And who could blame her?

Source: Susan T From Royal News and Views
 
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I moved some posts that was about names on future children to Frederik and Mary you will find the thread here about such matterslink
 
Hello,


I am ordering the DVD and I live in the States. What does
"Postnr. og By" mean? I don't know what to enter in that box.

Also, does anyone have more info on how we pay for this, since we have to pay when it arrives?
 
If you had to tell another person about the Danish royal wedding, and the bits which were most memorable for you, what would you include?

For me, the following images stood out: in the beginning, Fred was taking deep breaths, making me worry that he would pass out :lol: . And then the music started, his eyes started watering. Joachim cracked a joke, Fred smiled through his tears. Inevitably a quiet moment and then the tears started welling in his eyes; Joachim understood and didn't interrupt.

And then Mary walking down the aisle, and Fred sniffing furiously... and then eagerly walking towards Mary and her dad as they completed the bow and curtsey to the queen.

And Mary putting her hand on Fred's leg, and Fred massaging her hand.

:heart: :heart: :flower:
 
I guess Fred's tearing up would be one highlight, certainly, and that lovely little kiss on the cheek Mary gave him in the carriage afterwards. You're right that there were lots of great moments that day. :heart:
 
both of those were very memorable and touching, but i must add one more moment to that,
the one where mary was giving her bouquet to Amber and frederik was looking at Mary like he was entranced by her and the whole outfit, like he never seen a more beautiful person. god, makes me want to cry :cry: :cry: :cry:
 
Stunning Backdrops to spring's royal nuptials

Prince Frederik married his Tasmanian-born bride Mary Donaldson in Copenhagen on May 14. The emotional ceremony - the groom wiped a tear from his eye even before he caught sight of Mary walking down the aisle - took place at Vor Frue Kirke cathedral.

It was a day filled with spontaneous gestures. The pretty Australian held her partner's hand to help calm his nerves during the ceremony, and then the pair paused for a kiss even before emerging into the sunlight.

Outside, thousands of well-wishers lined the streets where the wedding was broadcast on big screens and the capital's buses were decked out with Australian flags in honour of the new princess.

The scenic northern European city which formed the backdrop to the Danish nuptials includes many other year-round sights including the official residence of Queen Margrethe, Amalienborg Palace. Here tourists flock to watch the changing of the guard daily at 12pm, before exploring the city's nearby botanical gardens, called Botanisk Have. These nestle in 25 acres of grounds alongside the 17th-century Rosenborg Palace, where the Danish Crown Jewels and other treasures are housed.

A relaxing stroll in the canal district, Nyhavn, famed onetime home of Hans Christian Andersen, is a must for any visit to the capital city. In addition to taking in the local colour – and checking out the famous Little Mermaid statue – one can enjoy traditional cuisine and sample local beers at any number of quaint waterside bars and cafes. And for souvenir shopping, head to Stroeget, where you'll find the world's longest pedestrian street, lined with both reasonably priced souvenir stands and upmarket shops.

It was an emotional day for Denmark's Prince Frederik, when he tied the knot with his Australian sweetheart in picturesque northern capital of Copenhagen

Colourfully painted buildings line the city's wooden-ship-lined Nyhavn seafront

The Little Mermaid statue is probably Copenhagen's best known landmark

Visitors to the Danish capital can wander the local Gammel Strand flea market in search of bargains...

... or simply chill out in the lush surroundings of the city's botanical gardens, Frederiksberg Have

A highlight of a visit to the royal residence section of Amalienborg Palace is the daily changing of the guard

The city's network of picturesque canals can be explored by rowing boat, which are available for hire

A winter snowfall turns Christiansborg Palace into a scene of picture postcard beauty

from hellomagazine
 
NEARLY 40,000 VOTES CAST IN ROYAL WEDDING POLL
31 May 2004
from www.hellomagazine.com

Whether romantic, elegant or traditional, its clear that royal weddings are a big hit with hellomagazine.com readers.

In our latest royalty poll, asking our readers which recent wedding – that of Crown Prince Felipe and Letizia Ortiz, or of Crown Prince Frederik and Mary Donaldson – was best, a whopping 40,000 voters logged on to make their opinion known.

While those following our coverage obviously enjoyed the pomp and circumstance of both royal nuptials, it was Felipe and Letizia's stately May 22 ceremony in Spain which came out on top, winning 57 per cent of the vote.

Frederik and Mary's romantic wedding, held in Copenhagen one week prior, was preferred by nearly 17,000 of those who logged on, scoring 43 per cent.
 
at frederiks forum you will find some great fanart and wallpapers of the wedding...
 
Did everybody see the issue of Semana that had the photos of the wedding? That was great. Big, colorful photos. Great magazine.
 
I don't know where to put this :wacko: , and I don't really know if the guy is for real (if he really did the things he said he did), but it's something to read and Naomi Toy did go to Denmark!! :p

Reflections of an Australian in Denmark. Just a little extract (I think that's allowed!):

Detour to Denmark
What wedding?

By Stewart Mullin

Wife and I are invited to the Australian Ambassador’s Copenhagen residence for drinks with Frederik and Mary. It seems that me and about 70 other Australians (and partners) were invited to this little soiree. Just to give you the facts about the day, we were invited from 5pm-7pm the dress style was 'lounge' which does not really tell you anything.
 
This is interesting--wish I could read the whole article!!!
 
Yes you can, I put the link just before the extract ;) . But you're right, it wasn't clear that it was the link.

Anyway here it is again: Link .

NB. Link from Australians Abroad website, and 'blog' written by Stewart Mullin).
 
Thanks for the link, Jasl.

Mary need to be very Careful when she speaks to "strangers". You could be sure they will be all to easger to blad to the Press. Telling "Stewart" (I guessing that his name) that she will 'al-ways consider herself Australian' might not sit well with the Danes . They have embrassed her as one of their own.

IMHO and my Danish friends, we like Mary. Their opinion Mary is a great addition to the Royal Family.

I hope that quote does not come back to haunt her.
 
Originally posted by kate14@Jun 13th, 2004 - 10:08 am

Mary need to be very Careful when she speaks to "strangers".  You could be sure they will be all to easger to blad to the Press.  Telling "Stewart" (I guessing that his name) that she will 'al-ways consider herself Australian' might not sit well with the Danes .  They have embrassed her as one of their own.

I hope that quote does not come back to haunt her.
Following Jasl post about Stewart.....

I have an Aussie friend (living in DK, married to a Dane) who also attended the reception at the Australian Ambassadors residence. (She apparently knows this Stewart guy who contributes articles to Aust'ns Abroad) Anyway, she also chatted to Mary for a while... her observation was that Mary was really lovely but seemed to be very circumspect in her responses to questions (Mmmm, pity she dropped her guard in front of Stewart!), her other observation was Mary's amazing skin - she said that Mary was more stunning in real life than in photos.

Anyway, another little titbit.... a few weeks later, Mary attended the ANZAC day service in Copenhagen - word was that she was looking a little sad/reflective - her last ANZAC day as an Aussie! This time it was the Aust'n Ambassador that blabbed! He told a few people in attendance that he'd met with Mary the previous week to accept her renunciation of Australian citizenship which he said could account for her pensiveness.

By the way, hello to Jasl! I've just found my way to this message board. Have been reading the RBMB for a while... but have really had enough of that board now. ;)
 
Thanks for sharing Royalviewer.

It is important for Mary to remember to be on GUARD, 24 hours a day - 7 days a week.
 
Lol @ Royalviewer :lol: (i know the feeling ... i sometimes wish I had lots of time to reply to vindictive and ultimately inconsequential posts, but I know that it would be a waste of my time :lol: . I'd rather spend time writing inconsequential happy posts!).

Anyway! Can't be bothered with any of that now!

Regarding Mary's "I will always consider myself an Australian" comment, hmmm, perhaps it can/will be used against her later on, but I don't think so somehow. I think the Danes have been very very interested in Tasmania/Aust and seems to know that Australia means a lot to Mary. I actually think Mary would be losing a lot if she had to drop all Australian-ness, because that's part of her attractiveness to her new countrymen.

I think they will look at the way she acts, whether she looks like she really wants to fit in etc. Henrik said in an interview that he has considers himself fully Danish, but because of how he sometimes is (tantrum/ hiding in Caix etc) he still isn't the most popular. In any case Mary's view on this whole being Australian/Danish thing has already been explained by her in that book by Ninka... it's not a yet to be traversed ground.... it's already been covered and explained. I also think that Mary knows about the pull of two countries because her parents also went through that. I certainly think that John and Henrietta are excellent role models in juggling two allegiances, don't you think? They were Australians, but somehow, they were also Scots. And I think Mary will be the same in regards to being Australian/ Danish.
 
^^ you've just scratched the surface there.

Due to the nature of Australia, with its roots firmly planted 25,000km away in the UK, there are millions of similar points of view. Ask anyone of the generation who migrated to Australia from the UK and they'll say they're Australia, but won't forget their UK roots. And likewise with the massive southern European migrant influx in the 50s and 60s, the same thing is evident, and I doubt much will change once the generations of South East Asian migrants gets to the same stage. In short, it's something instilled in the Australian psyche: you may be Australian, but you can't forget your heritage.

The example of Mary is just taking on a new spin, the concept is the same, the roles are reversed. And as I've said on here already, I still think it highly appropriate to give Mary AND Frederik honourary Australian titles, as with this quote of Mary has surfaced, it somewhat enforces the point I made that Australia's going to play a large role in BOTH their lives.

Why prolong the inevitable? They're going to be the next reigning Danish Monarchs, but you can't deny the other side of equation (hey, the Danish Royal family has spent a hell of a lot of time here, let's formalise it!).

HRH Frederik Crown Prince of Denmark, Duke of Tasmania,
HRH Mary Crown Princess of Denmark, Duchess of Tasmania.
 
Does anyone have any information about the display of gifts received by Crown Prince Frederik and Crown Princess Mary?? Neither does this non-Danish speaker :p

Here's some links of short articles that talk about the gifts.... in Danish. I think one of them mentions what CP Haakon and MM gave, what Q Beatrix gave, what the Belgians gave, etc: https://www.bt.dk/royalt/ .

So cute! They received bikes... one with a baby seat already attached: https://i2.tv2.dk/gallery/gallery.php?id=94...bryllup&index=7 ;)
 
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Here's a little bleep from The Scotsman about the gifts:



Royal gifts

THE Danish Crown Prince Frederik and his princess, Mary, will try to find good uses for all the 1,800 wedding presents they received, including eight wrist watches, five mobile phones, seven digital cameras and a fire extinguisher, a royal spokesman said yesterday,

The Scotsman Article
 
I don't think so ausroyalfan.... Australia doesn't give out titles (I don't think we can - I haven't come across a law that says we can :unsure: ).

However, one can buy titles. Apparently you can buy one for as cheap as 5,000 pounds.

But I think Fred and Mary can look forward to being "King and Queen of Denmark" so I don't think they're too fussed that they're not the Duke of Tasmania ;) .
 
Jasl  Posted: Jun 19th, 2004 - 11:12 pm

I don't think so ausroyalfan.... Australia doesn't give out titles
I thought - Australians are still awarded "Sir" and so on ! Like, most of the Governor Generals of Australia are accorded this privilege. Sir John Howard, etc.

That suggests to me, that the Government of Australia forwards to England, requests of who should be honoured. And that means, Australia gives out titles !

Fred ....the Duke of Tasmania
has a nice 'ring' to it. ;) :p
 
Originally posted by King Christian@Jun 19th, 2004 - 11:27 pm
I thought - Australians are still awarded "Sir" and so on ! Like, most of the Governor Generals of Australia are accorded this privilege. Sir John Howard, etc.
A law passed a few years back and ended the giving of titles. Those people who were awarded titles before this law came into affect can keep them.
 
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