Some aristocrats were not fans of other aristocrats even marrying Americans, Lady Violet Greville, mother of Charles Greville, 3rd Baron Greville who went onto to marry a wealthy American heiress, Olive Grace Kerr 9months after his mother wrote about decadence since American brides married aristocrats. Lady Violet Greville said “ The rich American has no traditions, no prejudices in favor of old customs, duties or responsibilities; she is essentially irresponsible, and measures everything by only one standard- money”. At the time her thoughts were considered be criticism of Lord Granard to Beatrice Livingston Mills.I think that upper class people would have been judgy over an American qqeen, even if she was single, a quiet type and from a well bred well to do family... because the upper crust esp the ladies would think "How come an American has got him? Why not one of us?
and they mgiht think that an Americna would never quite fit in with the RF... but