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Sad that he never had children. Not a big deal that his rights were taken away at age 13 in my mind
Well that’s a brutal way to find out. Any reason why his parents didn’t tell him and his brother? Were they trying to shield them?Here is an article about how Count Ingolf was told he wasn't going to be king back in 1953.
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Grev Ingolf mindes skelsættende øjeblik: Sådan fik han beskeden
Grev Ingolf var 13 år gammel, da han fik den skelsættende nyhed om, at det ikke skulle være ham, der ville blive konge en dag.www.bt.dk
The change in the Constitution and Succession was not discussed in his home, so he was told by the other children in school.
Indeed!Well that’s a brutal way to find out. Any reason why his parents didn’t tell him and his brother? Were they trying to shield them?
Hey MuhlerIndeed!
Yes, they were probably trying to shield both Ingolf and his siblings.
As you may recall the debate at the time was pretty nasty.
I have never given much thought to the popular perception of Prince Knud as not very bright, nor his wife probably having to ignore and shield things as the daughter of a vocal Nazi supporter, but this… just seems like poor parenting and poor foresight, period.Indeed!
Yes, they were probably trying to shield both Ingolf and his siblings.
As you may recall the debate at the time was pretty nasty.
what about Cristian and Elizabeth, were they bitter towards Frederik's family? I would think that Elizabeth was closest to them.Count Ingolf is a man I have a lot of respect for.
He is a decent man, who in contrast to most of his family, didn't harbor ill feelings towards Frederik IX's family (perhaps with the exception of Queen Ingrid, but that's a question I will probably never learn the answer to) nor much bitterness about being bypassed as the future king.
He also tried, and succeeded, in establishing a good relationship with QMII and her children. - Again in contrast to his family, who for certainly for many years, perhaps always, had a lot of resentment towards Frederik IX and his family.
Perhaps in particular building a good relationship with Joachim. Count Ingolf knew first hand how it was to be, if not vilified, then at least resented by a considerable segment of the population. - Joachim for his personality and Count Ingolf for his looks, which of course means that he is stupid.
Which he isn't. I dare claim he was the brains in his branch of the family. I don't know how intelligent he is, but I doubt he was back in the queue when they handed brains out.
But more importantly to me at least, he is a good man. I would be very flattered if my tombstone reads that here lies a good man.
He has never exploited his situation or position. He has always lived a quiet, unassuming life and by all accounts he is well liked and well respected by those who know him. He has never complained or whined about his destiny and while being often very honest in his interviews, he has always been balanced and never vented any grudges towards QMII and her family, he might have had deep inside. He has also shown an understanding for QMII and her position.
That's wisdom.
His father, Prince Knud, was basically sacked by the Danes, because they didn't like him (and his wife) and considered him dim and unsuited - my impression is that I would tend to agree on that one.
He, Ingolf and his siblings, were also sacked by the public for being their father's children, for being ugly and awkward in public - and therefore stupid.
That would have hurt! A lot! - But it would also given him a personal ballast and wisdom, I'm sure.
Had Ingolf been king today, it is of course difficult to say whether he would have been a better or worse king than QMII, who despite her flaws is immensely respected and has managed to turn the monarchy into a very solid and highly popular institution. Helped very much by formidable daughters-in-law of course, but still. However, I think Ingolf would not have been the worst king we could have got. His wisdom and abilities to look beyond himself and his own (no doubt often hurt) feelings and willingness to reach out would have been very useful traits for any monarch.
- A big what if, and very much based on my subjective impressions of him.