This whole affair was discussed on prime breakfast TV this morning in the UK again and the conversation always gets round to the fact that Harry didn’t meet his father-in law before the wedding. Ordinary people will continue to question that fact so it is no surprise that the papers seem to side with TM until their is a plausible answer from Harry. The idea that this affair is a daily staple on TV now goes to show that Meghan should now realise she is on the public pay roll with all the public scrutiny that entails for her and her family. Remember how ordinary Britons “willed” the Queen to return to London at the time of Diana’s death when she wanted to stay in Balmoral. Ordinary Britons will only put up with a certain amount of aloofness from the Firm.
Meghan very well understands she's under public scrutiny, hence she's cutting her father out of her life. The father who tries to blackmail the royal family into giving him what he wants. If she wasn't under this public scrutiny, she most likely could handle it how she has before the markles decided they wanted to cash in on Meghan.
There are multiple reporters, writers etc, who have actually expressed, that they now completely understand, why Harry to this day has never met TM. Most of the public, everywhere else but DM comment section, are supporting Meghan, have sympathy for her, and want the Markles to quiet down. TM is seen even worse than Samantha, actually.
As for TM demanding, that Meghan takes care of him during his final years of his life, like he did his own mother. He is of the attitude, that he can treat Meghan this horribly, she just has to take it, and take care of him. Why isn't he asking this from his eldest son? Why is the onus on Meghan to drop her own life, move to Mexico, and devote to him?
The reporters backing TM and demanding Meghan to pay off the markles, how they should've been at her wedding, how they should be brought into the fold of RF, would be the first ones calling out Meghan for having such an outrageous family, and wasting tax payers money to deal with them, and how she's not suitable as a royal because of her family. I'm 100% sure of that.
ETA: I'm really annoyed at TM being upset, that he didn't have input on who Meghan invited to her wedding, and not changing things around, so he would be able to speak at the ceremony. He really just couldn't do his one job: Get his suits fitted properly, get on a plane, and walk her down the aisle. He was making demands for her to invite his family, and I'm sure this 'they won't be able to afford the plane tickets' was just a cover up. He wanted an invitation to Samantha one way or another. His entitled to need to get HIS say in everything, not letting Meghan do her own wedding how she wanted must've been so over bearing. And I'm sure he has this attitude about everything. He would demand M/H children to have Thomas in their name in some form. He would have to he recognized in every single thing.