Harry's lessons in how to act like a proper prince javascript:void window.open('http:/...=640,height=480,directories=no,location=no');javascript:void window.open('http:/...=400,height=250,directories=no,location=no'); Tuesday, 14 June 2005
ON recent form, Prince Harry is more likely to be seen being carried out of a nightclub than attending a high-society dinner party.
But along with his fellow recruits at Sandhurst, he is about to be given lessons in how to behave at the table.
Starting today, Officer Cadet Wales, as he is known at the Royal Military College in Surrey, will be put through his paces on a course entitled 'The Exemplary Officer'.
Covering everything from which cutlery to use at the dinner table to how to give the loyal toast, the course is designed to bring students up to scratch in the standards expected of a British Army officer.
Other topics tackled during the three, hour-long classes include conversational skills, such as making sure you talk to the person on your left for the first course, followed by the person to your right for the main.
There are also certain rules peculiar to the Army, such as those forbidding cadets from leaving the table to visit the lavatory until the end of the Loyal Toast.
One of the worst faux pas would be to pass the port incorrectly. It is always served by the host of the evening who will pour a glass for the person seated to his right, then himself before passing the bottle round the table to the left.
In some regiments the decanter is not allowed to touch the table while others insist it never leaves it.
The cadets' social skills will be examined at a five-course 'mess dinner' in the officers' quarters.
All in all it should prove quite a test for 20-year-old Harry, whose deportment often leaves much to be desired.
Since he joined Sandhurst five weeks ago, he has twice been criticised over his 'attitude' - once when he was caught lounging around on a wall instead of standing to attention.
'Twenty-five years ago a course such as this simply wouldn't have been needed,' said a college source. 'Nowadays, however, new recruits come from such diverse backgrounds - less than half from public schools - and it was deemed necessary to ensure they all have the same social skills.
'The mess dinners are a crucial part of an officer's life and have a unique etiquette involved, so a little coaching will never go amiss.'
One former Sandhurst cadet said yesterday: 'Given his upbringing, Harry should have a good start on how to behave. 'But he should be warned of a few tricks the new cadets like to play during mess dinners.
'Sometimes they tie your chair leg to the table so you cannot stand when it comes to the toasts.
'And it has been known for people to move their dinner plate only to find a naked picture carefully placed underneath it.'
By Rebecca English, Royal Correspondent
Daily Mail June 14 2005