Having a beloved family pet die does bring grief like no other, especially if it is, as Guy was, an older animal….
I respectfully disagree.
When my previous cats died they were around 15 years old. Heartbreaking though it was, I was consoled to a degree (as was the late Mr Shady) by the fact that they had enjoyed a long and happy life and that there were many happy memories to cherish.
My boy was just six. Losing him so young has absolutely crushed me TBH, and the grief is a hundred times worse. My only consolation is that he is no longer suffering, and I am the one bearing the pain of grief and loss, and not him. And from experience I know in that, in time, the pain will ease somewhat.
As far as Guy is concerned, MM is indeed entitled to say what she likes, but as a controversial public figure known for her flowery language, by choosing to share her tribute she is inviting opinion and comment about it, even from those who sympathise with her loss (as I do) and perhaps also question the timing of it. I chose not to read it myself.
One other observation: I
hated being apart from my boy even for just one night, and he was the same. After lockdown we both developed acute separation anxiety; I would often return early from planned breaks, etc, because I missed him so much and I knew how much he missed me. Luckily I had a very understanding and patient cat sitter. It's a fallacy that all cats are aloof and enjoy their own company, indeed many are very much like dogs, who tend to get very lonely and stressed when their human parents are away - even for a short time, such as if they are left outside while their human pops into a shop! We've all seen that scenario countless times.
Hopefully, Guy didn't get too stressed by MM's frequent lengthy absences, and had a familiar face to provide the consistent love and care that all our fur babies need.
