Thank you Marengo, and I do appreciate all the mods' efforts, and apologies for any headaches I've generated, past present or future!
It's always going to be tricky when you're dealing with a pair like H&M who are so divisive and controversial.
It would be miraculous if they could somehow turn over a new leaf and not cause any further problems, but I don't see that happening I'm afraid, because I don't think it's in their personality or nature to be any different and they are very determined and motivated to behave as they do. They believe they have been wronged, and that is plenty enough for them to keep on going, and to refuse to accept responsibility for their own mistakes. And they need money.
I'm an optimist and believe in looking forward, but lessons learned from the past are also important IMO; they teach us to be wary and cautious, to defend and protect. Sometimes people simply go too far too many times, and trust is gone forever. I know that from personal experience with members of my own family.