Kenya
Nobility
- Joined
- Jul 20, 2010
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- Charlottesville
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- United States
I agree that I have no problem with them choosing not to show the children for privacy reasons. But if you truly are concerned for their privacy, then there's no reason to show them at all. They're not representing anything or anyone, so documenting their childhoods isn't important for any future historical record.
Therefore, the only reason to show them at all is the reason most people post pictures of their kids and families on social media, because you want people to see the fun things you're doing, the special talents your kids have, or the things that make you proud. Nothing wrong with that at all, but it becomes something different if you're not actually showing the children. When you post your children but hide their faces, the post is no longer about your children, but about you. It's an exercise in your vanity.
The focus of Meghan's videos isn't how much fun Lili and Archie had at Disneyland or the pumpkin patch, because no one connects on an emotional level with her faceless children. Instead the focus is "Look what great parents we are because we took our kids to Disneyland." "Look at how in love we are because we're holding hands while our kids play in the pumpkin patch." These posts aren't about the kids at all, but about cultivating and presenting an image. Fair enough, since that's what all influencers do. But the only reason she's showing them is because of the way they reflect on her as a mom, not as people in their own right.
Therefore, the only reason to show them at all is the reason most people post pictures of their kids and families on social media, because you want people to see the fun things you're doing, the special talents your kids have, or the things that make you proud. Nothing wrong with that at all, but it becomes something different if you're not actually showing the children. When you post your children but hide their faces, the post is no longer about your children, but about you. It's an exercise in your vanity.
The focus of Meghan's videos isn't how much fun Lili and Archie had at Disneyland or the pumpkin patch, because no one connects on an emotional level with her faceless children. Instead the focus is "Look what great parents we are because we took our kids to Disneyland." "Look at how in love we are because we're holding hands while our kids play in the pumpkin patch." These posts aren't about the kids at all, but about cultivating and presenting an image. Fair enough, since that's what all influencers do. But the only reason she's showing them is because of the way they reflect on her as a mom, not as people in their own right.