It is also worth to remember that this is a day that means a lot of things for different people…. Maybe it is a provocative thought… Then so be it because it is the truth…
While i have my utmost respect for the veterans marching past and the sacrifices they have made and the horrible memories and wounds many of them are carrying in their bodies and soul’s for the rest of their lives - it is also a day that not is a day of happiness for everyone…
Countless of eueopean citizens (and ofcourse also countless of citizens of other parts of the world) are descendants of people who were on the wrong side of history and who committed the worst imaginable war crimes and crimes against humanity…. That is not a small group of people… It it countless of millions… For many of those descendants this is also a day of heartbreak and painful memories of a family-history they don’t want to remember and absolutely don’t want to talk about or hear about….
I am not one of them myself but i have my utmost respect also for them… Because as important as it is that we remember, it is also often only one side of the history, the ”good side” and their descendants that we get to see on tv-channels and in the newspapers…. The countless of descendants of those who were on the ”wrong side” of the history is rarely seen, rarely heard… But they exist too, and many of them carries feelings of inherited guilt and inherited shame for something that a previous family-generation did…. I think these people also deserves a thought or two because you certainly won’t see them being interviewed on BBC or SkyNews…
It's not just about the Nazis in the upper political parties and decision makers, whose children and grandchildren suffer from the guilt of their fathers/grandfathers.
It's also about millions of other, ordinary citizens who weren't Hitler's followers but didn't dare to rebel. The post-war generation, to which I belong, repeatedly asked their parents and grandparents, "How could you have allowed this?" Then you hear different life stories.
My aunt was engaged to a German Jew. He fled to Great Britain when it became dangerous for him. She never saw him again.
In my mother's sports club there were people who were Hitler supporters. If anyone tried to convince such people otherwise, they threatened to report them, that's what my mother told me. Nobody had the courage to contradict them. You can blame the entire nation for why they didn't collectively resisted the Nazi terror regime.
Our history and guilt was discussed extensively in school, numerous documentaries, books, movies have been published and are still being shown on TV. I hope it will continue in the future. There are people who say "It is enough, I don't want to hear about this anymore" . I am convinced that we should never cease to remember this part of history for future generations in this country, as a constant warning that something like this must never again be initiated by our nation.
The guilt, even though I didn't belong to that generation, is still there; And that's how it is for many others, even though my or their family members were not Nazi supporters.
But that is one reason why reconciliation is so important. It has now been 80 years, and I am grateful that we have achieved this reconciliation with most nations.