Okay PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE
My husband's sister can barely look at me let alone speak with me, and I am the same with my brother's wife. We have all tried and it has ended this way for the better. We al lhave nothing in common and both are very miserable people who only talk about themselves. Neither relationship has changed in 15 years of trying, so please know it is all fable that Charlene will EVER get along with either sister. They support their brother's choice by just being in the same space with Charlene, probably because he has stood by BOTH sisters for many years. But it is evident that they have, both sisters, PASSED the point of even appearing civil with Charlene and cannot even force themselves to PRETEND to get along with her or speak with her. I read last year that when she "disappeared" to South Africa for several months where she did not appear at all in Monaco, it was because she could not get along with the sisters and Albert was NOT standing up for her hoping it would all sort itself out. He SENT Caroline on "duty" to SA and had her make up with Charlene after which Charlene started to come back to Monaco .. BUT THIS TIME MOVED IN ! He gave her an apartment and bought her a car and got her a few endorsements so that she would have "her own money" to buy and send things for her friends/family without having to ask him for money.
I think Albert is genuinely in love with Charlene, but love is NOT everything, especially NOT in a fishbowl where he lives with his sister and her children. He seems to be trying to assess whether or not it is okay to marry the partner he wants in spite of the mess of emotions between them all, something Rainier apparently did since his sister did not like Grace at all and was abhorred to find her brother marrying a potato-farmer's granddaughter (says the granddaughter of a washerwoman).
All's fair .. right now, Albert will lose the support of his sisters when he marries Charlene and he is painfully aware of that. This is ONLY okay if Charlene can pull the same load as Caroline. Caroline will HAVE to pull out of quite a few patronages and hand them over to Charlene due to protocol.
Let us all see where this goes .. but it is evident with all body language that the sisters can barely tolerate Charlene .. who is happy only because Albert has been standing up for her. Photos show she is happiest when the sisters are not around ..
R.
My husband's sister can barely look at me let alone speak with me, and I am the same with my brother's wife. We have all tried and it has ended this way for the better. We al lhave nothing in common and both are very miserable people who only talk about themselves. Neither relationship has changed in 15 years of trying, so please know it is all fable that Charlene will EVER get along with either sister. They support their brother's choice by just being in the same space with Charlene, probably because he has stood by BOTH sisters for many years. But it is evident that they have, both sisters, PASSED the point of even appearing civil with Charlene and cannot even force themselves to PRETEND to get along with her or speak with her. I read last year that when she "disappeared" to South Africa for several months where she did not appear at all in Monaco, it was because she could not get along with the sisters and Albert was NOT standing up for her hoping it would all sort itself out. He SENT Caroline on "duty" to SA and had her make up with Charlene after which Charlene started to come back to Monaco .. BUT THIS TIME MOVED IN ! He gave her an apartment and bought her a car and got her a few endorsements so that she would have "her own money" to buy and send things for her friends/family without having to ask him for money.
I think Albert is genuinely in love with Charlene, but love is NOT everything, especially NOT in a fishbowl where he lives with his sister and her children. He seems to be trying to assess whether or not it is okay to marry the partner he wants in spite of the mess of emotions between them all, something Rainier apparently did since his sister did not like Grace at all and was abhorred to find her brother marrying a potato-farmer's granddaughter (says the granddaughter of a washerwoman).
All's fair .. right now, Albert will lose the support of his sisters when he marries Charlene and he is painfully aware of that. This is ONLY okay if Charlene can pull the same load as Caroline. Caroline will HAVE to pull out of quite a few patronages and hand them over to Charlene due to protocol.
Let us all see where this goes .. but it is evident with all body language that the sisters can barely tolerate Charlene .. who is happy only because Albert has been standing up for her. Photos show she is happiest when the sisters are not around ..
R.