More recently I am reading opinion pieces on the monarchy, I tell her, pieces that call for the abolition of the monarch. The argument being that it is no longer of this time to ask someone to take on such a heavy duty only because he or she was born in that position. Abolish it, because of Amalia, is the conclusion in those cases. What does she think?
At first she is surprised. Normally this is about 'it is a puppet show' and 'it is too expensive', but about her?
'It is so much bigger than me', she says. Both of us are silent. She breaks the silence with a matter of factly: 'They can do it, 'if they like' (not literal but she uses words like 'wel' and 'hoor' - so that's my interpretation (it is very informal speech), then I will continue with my life as well. But the monarchy is so much bigger than me. I have been born in a certain life and I've accepted it. Somehow it remains difficult but on the other hand I completely accepted it. It is about so much more than me.'