The Nora Haukland case
The case is not important and interesting just because Haukland is famous. Violence against women and abuse in close relationships is a major social problem with large hidden figures.
The indictment against Høiby states:
"From the summer of 2022 to the fall of 2023 in Oslo, Asker, Alta, Barbados and/or other places, he abused his then-partner Nora Haukland through repeated violence, threatening behavior and other offenses.
The violence consisted, among other things, of him repeatedly hitting her in the face, including with a clenched fist, choking her, kicking her and grabbing her hard. On individual occasions, he slammed a door in her face, slammed her hands into a wall and pushed her into a refrigerator. On several occasions, he threw objects at her, against walls or floors, and destroyed furniture, including by smashing mobile phones, cupboard doors and other objects. He further subjected her to repeated verbal and physical abuse, including on a number of occasions by yelling and screaming in her face and calling her with names "xx" and "xx", that she was stupid and an idiot and the like. He also controlled her whereabouts, put pressure on her about who she could have social interactions with and pressured her to turn down work assignments."
I dag er det taktskifte i Høiby-saken. Nå skal det handle om mishandling i nære relasjoner, og inn kommer den tidligere samboeren Nora Haukland.
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Nora Haukland's lawyer Heidi Reisvang from Elden Advokatfirm said to the press:
- She is terrified. It will be a burden for her to appear in court, but she is determined to answer all questions she is asked to the best of her ability.
Nora Haukland skal for første gang forklare seg om forholdet med Høiby, som påtalemyndigheten mener var preget av vold og frykt.
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From Nora Haukland's testimony:
Nora Haukland spoke about a relationship that she gradually experienced as more and more controlling. In addition, she had to think about the reputation of the royal family. "I didn't have to behave badly because he's part of the royal family, but he never cared how he behaved," Haukland said.
Haukland further described Marius as a person with two faces. One is Marius the clown who is sweet, funny and a person who jokes a lot, and then there is the Marius who gets black in the eyes and is impossible to communicate with. Several times during her explanation, Haukland said that she had been afraid of Marius, especially when he changed from the funny to the destructive version of himself.
Haukland's explanation is actually a textbook description of the pattern in an abusive partnership, a relationship where no blows are dealt but where the psychological control is so extensive that one ends up walking on eggshells and no longer dares to be oneself.
In Haukland's explanation, it appears as an additional burden that Borg Høiby allegedly used his status as a royal to control her.
Forklaringen hennes fremstår som en tekstbok-beskrivelse av partnervold, men på ett punkt skiller den seg ut.
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