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How much longer is Marius going to be allowed to just go free given his known history of illegal activities.
This is one very insightful post and I cannot praise it enough.This whole saga has been a horrible thing to follow. By now we know that Marius is too far gone to be helped by any conventional means. No matter what else might or might not have happened in his victims' lives, nobody deserves any of the horror Marius has caused them. My sympathies are firmly for the women he has abused, and who for a long time, one way or another, were let down by people around them. Including the royal house, authorities and the media.
But the problem for the Norwegian monarchy is that this is not just about Marius. I guess I'm not the only one who sees a pattern here. Case Märtha Louise and her "shaman" is different from this in every respect but one. Both of these cases paint a picture of a royal house that doesn't take itself seriously, doesn't take its duties seriously, yet expects the general population to take them seriously. An equation like that can never work, and the attitude is pure poison for the institution's future. If, indeed, it has any.
Many here have written that MM perhaps blames herself and the complicated set up with Marius in an unequal role compared to his half-siblings for all the trouble Marius has had with the outside world (and with himself). It would be understandable of her to think like that, no matter how wrong we know her conclusions to be. And yet, I still can't understand it, how someone with such logic-defying, blind love for one child can neglect another child so completely. Mette Marit, by protecting Marius to this extent, has essentially thrown her own daughter under the bus. Ingrid Alexandra, as the future Queen, doesn't have the same luxury as Marius of choosing her own path in life. She must serve the institution of monarchy, she must be in the spotlight for all her life, and there really is no way she can opt out of it, no honourable way, anyway. And MM has made her daughter's plight massively more challenging than it was ever going to be. I don't just mean the reputational damage that Marius has brought to the family, but also the connections. This level of connections to the underworld poses a massive risk to IA. Not just for the monarchy, but also for her as a person, on many levels. Marius' friends just don't appear to be the kind of people who would leave royals alone.
When Haakon and Mette Marit married, I thought that this might one day trigger the end of the Norwegian Monarchy. I never agreed with the idea that Nordic monarchies were popular because they were down to earth. Instead, they have been popular because they have worked hard, and because they have given the appearance of being trustworthy and level-headed. Yet, truth to be told, I never expected to be proven right in such a horrible way. It's not just Marius' fault or Mette Marit's fault, but the sorry product of a family culture where they think being "down to earth" or "like all the other citizens" means taking nothing seriously, yet making use of their royal privilege without limit.
Both Märtha Louise and Haakon give me the impression of spoiled kids without any sense of proportion whatsoever. I don't know if Harald and Sonja can directly be blamed, not necessarily. The old King and Queen have done their very best for Norway and for the royal house, and though they would never say so openly, somehow I fear they watch their offspring with a sense of disappointment, worry and self-blame.
It's quite possible that after Harald's time, if not before, the support of monarchy collapses spectacularly in Norway. It won't be enough for a transformation into a republic, however. The monarchy thus enters a future in limbo, where politicians hope it's out of the way, yet do not have the energy or the guts to do away with it. Marius, as well as Märtha Louise, will continue to damage the institution with their antics. And yet for monarchists, this is really the best case scenario. Because at least, as long as the monarchy isn't abolished, there remains the chance that one day Ingrid Alexandra can turn things around and the past trouble can be forgotten. Haakon and Mette Marit already had their chance to do their thing for the monarchy, and they blew it. Sorry to be so blunt, but there is no way around it.
The police warned Marius about his friends: The Marius' friends' drug network
Dagbladet can today say that two long-time friends of Marius have over time had contact with the ex-footballer charged with possession of 34 kilos cocaine - and the case complex the police believe he is part of.
For US dollars are you saying it would be $1800/ month (one thousand eight hundred dollars)?NOK 20.000 would be 1.716 Euro/1.800 USD/1.422 GBP - and if his bills are also going to Haakon and MM (to avoid them going to debt collection? [you'd think that the alternative would be: him paying]), that would suggest that the NOK 20.000 could be spending money, while his other costs are covered by his mother and stepfather.
Almost, 1787 $. Not a lot, I suspect they didn’t want to fuel his addiction.For US dollars are you saying it would be $1800/ month (one thousand eight hundred dollars)?
Thank you! If they are paying his bills (car, phone, credit cards, utilities for his house and I guess the rent is free), I think that $1787 “spending money” is quite a lot. I really can’t think of any normal 27 year olds I know who have that much discretionary income each month.Almost, 1787 $. Not a lot, I suspect they didn’t want to fuel his addiction.
Thanks for this info!Norway is one of the most expensive countries in Europe, maybe as expensive as Switzerland. That’s what made me say it’s not a lot. The average monthly income in 2023 was aprox 5000 euros, almost three times what Marius says he was getting from his parents.
Yes , I agree as to how expensive it must be to live in Norway . However as Marius stated ALL his formal / regular bills are paid by his parents , whether birth or step . I sincerely doubt he has ever had to pay for his drugs etc . Unrestricted access to the CP couples private estate / home , their possessions would have compensated his criminal friends adequately .Norway is one of the most expensive countries in Europe, maybe as expensive as Switzerland. That’s what made me say it’s not a lot. The average monthly income in 2023 was aprox 5000 euros, almost three times what Marius says he was getting from his parents.
A very comfortable life, indeed. but also a very empty and useless life with no work ethics and no ambitions. That definitely has to change too after rehab or prison.Marius has more money to spend than an ordinary working couple his age. - after, taxes, insurance, transport, union, heating, food and other necessities.
It looks like he is a serial rapist, in addition to being an abuser to all his girlfriends. At this point, I think jail is the only option.A very comfortable life, indeed. but also a very empty and useless life with no work ethics and no ambitions. That definitely has to change too after rehab or prison.
Yes, prison in any case, but he also needs therapy so that he becomes aware of his misogynistic, brutal and criminal behavior and realizes how much harm he is doing to other people, not only to the girlfriends or other women but also to his family. I have my doubts if that will happen, he is so deeply in the mud, has no conscience and no feelings, seems to be hard and cruel. If he only gets a prison sentence which I hope he will, but nothing else he might come out of prison being the same dangerous person as before.It looks like he is a serial rapist, in addition to being an abuser to all his girlfriends. At this point, I think jail is the only option.
Marius has had therapy , it seems to be fairly obvious that neither he or his birth/step parents, felt that he truly needed it , since he was allowed to walk away from it with no consequences . Indeed his subsequent behaviour shows that he was indulged even more . From what I have read , prison in Norway does focus on rehabilitation in addition to punishment . No one wants repeat offenders , especially in sexual crimes . I'm afraid that unless Marius has a ' road to Damascus ' , epiphany the NRF especially IA & SM are in for decades of drama . I'm afraid that apart from his maternal grandmother , they are the only ones in the NRF I have full sympathy for .Yes, prison in any case, but he also needs therapy so that he becomes aware of his misogynistic, brutal and criminal behavior and realizes how much harm he is doing to other people, not only to the girlfriends or other women but also to his family. I have my doubts if that will happen, he is so deeply in the mud, has no conscience and no feelings, seems to be hard and cruel. If he only gets a prison sentence which I hope he will, but nothing else he might come out of prison being the same dangerous person as before.
Marius is clearly a dangerous person.Se og Hør:
According to the police, Marius is alleged to have raped a young woman just hours after he had a pleasant family dinner with his then-girlfriend and her family on Palm Saturday March 23.
After the dinner was over, Marius and his girlfriend took a taxi home to Skaugum, where they lived together. But at some point Marius decided he didn't want to go home. He wanted to party instead, and his girlfriend therefore let him drop off in the city centre. She herself took the taxi to Skaugum.
Marius returned home to Skaugum only in the morning. In the meantime, Marius is said to have been at home with a woman in her 20s whom he didn't knew before. He allegedly assaulted her in the woman's home in Oslo.
According to TV 2, the rape has happened at 08.10 in the morning on Palm Sunday. The reason why the time is so precise is that the police has found several videos of the incident on Marius' mobile phone.
«Voldtok kvinne etter familie-middag»
Mette-Marits eldste sønn skal ifølge politiet ha voldtatt en ung kvinne bare timer etter at han satt i hyggelig familiemiddag med sin daværende kjæreste og hennes familie.www.seher.no
Dagbladet's political editor is responsible for the editorial, in which is written among other things:
We must realize that Marius' money lending and criminal circle of friends constitute a significant security risk for the Royal House.
TV 2 published a story about Marius explaining his personal finances. He has no personal income, but receives financial support from home. To avoid bills going to debt collection, Haakon and Mette-Marit ensure that they are paid. He has no control over his finances and is in a stressful financial situation, he has explained. He borrows money from his friends. "He thinks he has debt, but has no control over this" the case states.
The Royal House comments to TV 2: "The Royal Court has no knowledge of the private finances of Marius Borg Høiby". But they should have. If Marius owes money to people with criminal contacts, it potentially poses a significant security risk for the Royal House.
En sikkerhetsrisiko
Vi må innse at Marius Borg Høibys pengelån og kriminelle vennekrets utgjør en betydelig sikkerhetsrisiko for det norske kongehuset.www.dagbladet.no
I agree. But IIRC the rape which was committed on Palm Sunday, March 23, was mentioned before, just the details when and under which circumstances this happened (being with his then girlfriend who went to the house in Skaugum and him spending the night partying and raping a woman in the morning) were published now. It just makes me speechless again.Again it gets worse...yet another rape victim. I've lost count of the number of victims at this point. I honestly hope these women are getting the support and therapy that they need. It's bad enough that they have to cope with the trauma of the rape but now there is the added media attention that they must cope with.
The Court's response is pretty pathetic. Marius has admitted that he is receiving financial support from Haakon and Mette-Marit. If Marius is/was doing drugs for years and has ties to the criminal underworld... the CP couple receives an appanage- then by extension Norwegian tax dollars are being and were being to used to fund Marius' drug habits and his criminal activities. That is NOT good!
I feel that the King must do something at this point and make some tough decisions. Haakon and Mette-Marit have failed. Ultimately it is King Harald's reign and this is the last leg of it unfortunately. I'm sure he doesn't want his reign to be marred by this scandal which seems to get worse each day.