I so agree with you. I really hope the royal members can find peace inside themselves because it was a terrible event for all of them. You never expect anything like this to happen to you, especially when you're a very beloved royal in your country!
I think events like this one traumatize everyone who watch them somehow. I believe I'll never forget that little girl and a man rolling over the floor... it was simply horrible. Now I try to imagine how traumatic and shocking it was to all those who watch it alive! The Queen is indeed a very strong woman, she deserves all the praises, and God bless the Dutch royal family.
True.
Not everyone exhibite "emotional" behaviours as Máxima (and other royals) did. If I was at Máxima's place I know I would express my horror right away just like she did but that's me, there are persons who don't act like this, and we should never jugde how people react. I read somewhere that those who don't react "immediatly" are more prone to develop post-traumatic stress disorders
So his targets were Máxima and WA?

Then why did he do this against a bus full of royals? When the Police got close to him he was already dying, so maybe he said their names as he could have said any other royal name. It's so sad to imagine that this man hated WA and Máxima like this...
I still think he wanted to harm the Royal Family and to "punish" all of them for his situation

, not only one or two members or if.