Always everybody is saying: "... the most important thing is, that the baby is healthy". That is true in a way, of course, but is it then really the MOST important thing! Every day there are lots of babys born, who are not healthy. And many parents have to take care of a baby, who is ill in a way or other. Paralysed, disformed, with heart diseases, blind, deaf, etc. And the parents, they'll manage with it, too, they have to.
Everybody hopes/wishes a healthy, rosy baby, but a baby born with an ilness is as big a gift as a healthy one.