One thing I do truly admire about Camilla is that she's the kind of person that is comfortable in her own skin enough to just be herself. I can very much understand why once she is a friend that she is a friend that can be counted on to be a steadfast friend and a keeper of confidences. Everyone that has had occasion to meet her see a warm, down to earth and witty person that truly seems to enjoy being where she is.
As M. Payton mentions, she is an advocate for animals and I remember well when she visited a rescue shelter and went home with Bluebell. Even more, for me, I respect her for her work in literacy and encouraging children to explore the wonderful world of books. As a dedicated armchair traveler myself, it warms my heart to see Camilla promoting the love of reading.
Camilla is actually the kind of person that puts the capital C in consort. She knows her role in the royal family and sometimes I see a lot of the Queen Mother and Philip in Camilla. She knows and understands Charles, his needs, his idiosyncrasies, his passions and his way of doing things and with that knowing, Charles has someone who does truly love him for who he is. Like a pair of comfortable old shoes, this is a couple that don't need to be in each other's back pockets constantly and are able to be individuals. He can have the peace and solitude of nature around him as he quietly sits and paints while she has a rip roaring time with her grandchildren creating an ungodly mess in the kitchen making cookies.
It doesn't happen often but when a marriage encourages individuality with loving support, it brings out the best in each partner and that is what I believe that Charles and Camilla have. Being such a private couple, we rarely get a glimpse into their private lives and that's the way it should be. Unfortunately, without the proverbial fly on the wall, what the general public still sees and forms opinions on is what was long ago. I may be the odd person in the bunch but I do think that without Camilla's support, understanding, comfort and compassion, Charles' experiences in life would have had a more detrimental effect on him. To see him now as a happy, smiling, more comfortable man in his own skin is attesting to the love of a good woman besides him.