Letter from Prince Philip reveals ‘nightmare week’ for Royal Family following Diana’s death
The Queen was always kind to Diana and I still think it's sad that she was bullied because she was at Balmoral and took care of her grandchildren. She issued a statement in which she said that she was shocked and distressed by this terrible news. And to those who complained that the flag was not lowered quickly enough. The flag was not lowered for former monarchs, it was not meant to be lowered for the Queen Mother, the Queen or other members of the royal family, but this tradition was changed after pressure from the media.
Dickie Arbiter answered this in 2014.
Do you think Her Majesty made the right decision by staying at Balmoral when Diana tragically died?
Absolutely, absolutely! There is no question about that. I think the great British public will agree with that now. There was a witch-hunt frenzy by the media two days after Diana died with the headline story in the papers saying ‘Where is The Queen, why isn’t she in London’? You have to ask yourself, if she came down to London, what would she have done? The answer is probably nothing. She was absolutely right, for the first time in her reign she put her family before duty.
She had two grandsons, one aged 12, one aged 15, who needed a lot more support than the great British public. Their mother had been tragically killed in public circumstances and they needed to come to terms with it, because they knew at the end of the week they would have to face the world at the funeral. And so, The Queen and Prince Philip made sure they would be there for them. So yes, it was absolutely right they stayed in Balmoral for the sake of William and Harry and come down when she did. When she did come down, it was the day after William and Harry met their dad Prince Charles and had gone down to Kensington Palace in the afternoon where they looked at the floral tributes.
The Queen came down and went to St James’s Palace to sign the book of condolence, talked to people, went to Buckingham Palace to sign a book of condolence there, talk to well-wishers, and that evening she made a very heartfelt tribute to Diana which was broadcast live at six o’ clock. The funeral was the following day. So in answer to your question, yes it was absolutely right she stayed at Balmoral.
This was brilliantly written by EIIR in 2011, it's sad that she doesn't posts here anymore.
Personally, I was and continue to be disappointed that the Queen gave in to the voyeuristic baying of the press and the public at the time to 'see' the grief of her family. How on earth was it anyone's business how deeply or otherwise the royal family felt the loss of a former family member? What right do we have to see their private emotions and feelings?
The whole episode was a shameful one for Britain. The mass hysteria over the death of someone who, lets face it, didn't deserve the public howling and weeping was an utter embarrassment. She did a bit of charity work but then so does the whole of the royal family. She was not Ghandi or Churchill or Mandela.
The Queen should have released a statement saying that she preferred that the family remain in private to help her grandsons deal with the death of their mother. There should then have been a private funeral where two young boys would not have had to be paraded in front of the whole world to provide 'grief porn' to fill tv and newspaper pages.
The Queen allowed herself to be controlled by a baying media and a government which would gladly have seen the back of the monarchy. It was one of the worst moments in the history of the monarchy in my opinion.