Lady Nimue
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I would not term it as "trapping" but the book by the Housekeeper also mentions a desire for a third child, hopefully a daughter.
As Lady Nimue states, there were layers, but I respectfully disagree that Diana did not want to get back with Charles. I think at some point Charles was done with Diana and never looked back, but Diana wavered when it came to wanting to have a relationship with Charles. I do think the confrontation with Camilla in 1989 was sincere, at that moment Diana wanted Charles and, because he was firmly ensconced with Camilla, she wanted Camilla to give him up. Of course when Diana tells the story she conveniently leaves out that at that point she had had extra-marital relationships.
The story is convenient: it demonstrates (to her public) what she had to go through to try to get her husband back from the 'heartless Camilla'. Poor Diana. It's Diana's spin from later.
By then (later) Camilla was the lover of choice for Charles, Diana knew that, and commenced Camilla's take down. Camilla giving up Charles would not have effected a Charles beating a path back to Diana. Camilla was not 'in charge' of Charles' decision regarding who he was with. This is Diana's reasoning? What is clear is Diana chose a 'public' display with Camilla. That is curious, given she could have 'had it out' with Camilla in any number of ways less obvious. So what was the point of the public theatre?
Recall that when this incident took place is not when Diana spoke about it years later. Recall, too, that she was in her longest relationship with a man that she publicly professed to 'love madly'. (Think of that: longer than even with her husband). She trying to get Charles back? Why? She was 'madly in love' with Hewitt, as were her sons. She had a pretty cozy alternate family grouping going on. What was the point of busting up Charles' nest?
If she was trying to get Charles to give Camilla up it was a strange way to go about it (demean the husband's lover). Why not actually sit down with one's husband and agree to give up Hewitt when one asks him to give up Camilla? That would be a serious attempt at reconciliation. As with all of Diana's public displays one needs to be a little more canny regarding interpretation. Diana was doing something else (imo) with that little bit of theatre with Charles' friends.
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