I don't understand why Diana 'needed' someone as a lover, i.e. to have an affair with. While she surely needed friendships, having affairs was not a need but a want [...]
What Diana sought in all her affairs, to me, was a need. She needed to feel loved and wanted and cherished like we all do. With the marriage severely on the rocks, there was a serious lack of affection and companionship. It wasn't solely on the want of a sex life that Diana turned to other men. I would even go as far as to state that during most of her marriage, Diana could have been classified as, what a marriage counselor once told me, a married single. Diana for a long while before her divorce was pretty much married on paper only.