Coming out of lurkdom because this topic moves me, thanks for the great read.
I don't know what the British tabloids wrote about Meghan, it must have been tough - in Europe, she still gets mostly positive press. Which is of course no good to her.
The problem is that she can't solve problems with the press in the way she's used to. When she complains or explains, the press uses it as new fodder. In that sense, her African interview was a huge mistake because it made her look self indulgent and whiny - she had lots of opportunities in Africa to put her own problems into perspective. But how tough is it to swallow unfair criticism (or even fair criticism) without being able to answer! I really don't know how they do it.
So I can totally understand why Meghan and Harry both want to climb down from that crazy train.
But what I don't understand is HOW they do that.
If you want to get less attention, don't seek attention. If you want to recede into the background, don't flounce, don't make statements. Just prepare your refuge quietly, make sure you are supported, and make as little waves as possible. It's possible.
By standing in front of the whole world and announcing: we quit!, they make HUGE waves.
And I suspect they're not troubled by press scrutiny, only by NEGATIVE scrutiny. If they really want to make their brand to money (although they're very rich), they will need attention, they will need to generate excitement around themselves.
If they become a huge lifestyle brand a la GOOP - why should the Duchy of Cornwall pay for them? Why should they use the name of Sussex if they never do anything for Sussex?
They did it the wrong way around IMO. They should have left the room so quietly that nobody notices they're gone.
If they really wanted privacy, that's what they would have done.
I'm sad. I had high hopes for Meghan, I thought she could make an interesting royal duchess.
And I'm sad for Harry's grandparents who have such troubles at their age.
A pity. Couldn't they have carried on a bit more, for his grandparents' sake?
Sorry, I had nothing new to say but enjoyed the discussion, so i de-lurked