Ok, I understand what you're saying, but we're not going to get (most likely) Meghan coming out and saying that she hates the U.K., that she doesn't want Archie to grow up inside the BRF, etc.. So, what we're left with is her friends speaking for her (possibly with her approval, possibly with not - most of these are anonymous, so I admit I'm guessing they're not speaking for her officially knowing Meghan's tendency to cut people off) and other circumstantial evidence....We do have some of her own words to bolster our opinions - such as her complaint in the Africa interview. We have her actions as well - such as fleeing to Canada ....It's not like there's nothing for us to base our opinions on. That old saying "where there's smoke, there's fire" has been around a long time for a reason.....it's true.
I don't think she hates the U.K., she spent some time in the U.K. before she ever met Harry. I don't think she hates the people or even Harry's family, I don't think she and Kate were besties but that doesn't mean they didn't get along. I think (just opinion) most likely she is very unhappy with the situation for various reasons:
The intrusive media, the barrage of negative media from day one that has taken a very nasty tone at times....and it's just never seem to let up.
I also wonder if they or she felt constrained to not work as much on projects she wanted to work on either for political reasons, sensitive social issues, or perhaps they didn't want them overshadowing (the number of jobs done per year seems to be a big issue...a no win situation because if you do 50 or 100 more than dad did you will be said to be trying to over shadow them, if you don't do enough you are lazy bums).
I had said that perhaps if she had come in and done basically nothing the first year or two would she of been able to get away with it ...or would she of been labeled work shy and lazy. Seems to be against her nature to do that though based on her work history.
I wonder if she felt somewhat isolated from friends and making new friends is great and all but who do you trust? That has to be tricky.
Archie will be in a position gazillion other kids are in..they don't live 'next door' to family. You visit a couple times a year and stay in touch via facetime etc. Planes do travel to Canada ..it would be nice to see family going to see them too. They (Sussexes) have said they will be spending time in the U.K. so I'm going by that...if they don't then I will change my view about it.
I firmly believe this was a joint decision however I do think Harry was the lead dog in the situation.
Fleeing to Canada? How about perhaps it was their plan for her to go back and stay with Archie while Harry handled the business with his family. It is HIS family afterall. There were no other ppl at the big meeting, Kate wasn't there, Phillip wasn't there, Camilla wasn't there.
Meghan has friends she's had since college. I don't agree with this idea she has a tendency to cut ppl off for some minor reason. When it comes to some of her family...they have proven it would be perfectly reasonable for most ppl to avoid contact. I certainly wouldn't have contact with them.
Here's another old saying..give ppl enough rope and they will hang themselves (or not). So right now I'm looking at their past history of behavior to give me an indication of how they will behave in the future.
LaRae