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Aristocracy
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Your summary all the more points to something odd about his behavior. Excuse is not the word, rather explain, and the explanation requires compassion. JMO.
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We all have different experiences that effect how we view this situation.
In my case, although I've got wonderful parents (in their 90s now), I have a childhood friend who's been dealing with toxic parents all her life. As a result, I'm less inclined to be compassionate or tolerant of people who knowingly hurt their family members because I've seen firsthand the damage they do.
Yes I believe Samantha is worse than Tom but Tom has continued to hurt her and doesn't care enough to stop. I prefer to reserve my compassion for the people like Meghan who are on the receiving end of this toxicity.