Prince Harry: Relationship Suggestions and Musings 2016-2017

[Daenerys Targaryen]

Originally Posted by jacqui24

I believe she had her first child at 39. So she wasn't exactly young either at that point. But these things vary, and fitness and health before certainly has an effect. Sometimes there are young people who have fertility issues, you just never know.

She had an ectopic pregnancy 2 years earlier.

[princesslily]

Well I haven't been here in a long time and so much has changed!

Meghan was dating her ex chef boyfriend in May and apparently with Harry officially since July and casually dating before. There's one hint.

Here's one post in May showing her ex chef BF on holiday with Meg. https://www.instagram.com/p/BE35XD_y...vitiello&hl=en

[princesslily]

Sadly, I think Harry has made his choice. But I personally believe there will be problems in the future and more of what I've heard will come out. The truth will always eventually come out.

[American Observer7]

Originally Posted by Lady Nimue

That he announced her as his girlfriend seems key. What fun! Another wedding! Can we dare hope for a winter wedding finally?

Has there been another official statement from Harry that I don't know about?

[Lady Nimue]

Originally Posted by American Observer7

Has there been another official statement from Harry that I don't know about?

I don't think so. I'm just having some fun.

[Lady Nimue]

Originally Posted by princesslily

Sadly, I think Harry has made his choice.

On what do you base such? You sound like you think Harry sees Meghan as 'the one'. What evidence is there of that?

Originally Posted by princesslily

But I personally believe there will be problems in the future and more of what I've heard will come out. The truth will always eventually come out.

I'm sure there will be all manner of nastiness concocted, just as there was with Chelsy and Cressida, and Kate with William. It's why I think Harry is not a good bet for any woman. Just not worth the real dark animus that gets stirred.

[jacqui24]

Originally Posted by princesslily

Well I haven't been here in a long time and so much has changed!

Meghan was dating her ex chef boyfriend in May and apparently with Harry officially since July and casually dating before. There's one hint.

Here's one post in May showing her ex chef BF on holiday with Meg. https://www.instagram.com/p/BE35XD_y...vitiello&hl=en

The timeline here seems consistent with what Piers Morgan's piece talked about. He and Meghan met up in June, and she mentioned she was recently single, and there is a few guys that are being a little persistent. So sounds like to me, it's pretty consistent that she was telling the truth and she was single at that time.

[Curryong]

Richard Palmer today answering a follower on his Twitter Page about the state of the Harry/Meghan romance --'Like everyone I can only guess. It seems serious and intense. I wouldn't be surprised if they got engaged soon.'

[princesslily]

Originally Posted by Curryong

Richard Palmer today answering a follower on his Twitter Page about the state of the Harry/Meghan romance --'Like everyone I can only guess. It seems serious and intense. I wouldn't be surprised if they got engaged soon.'

I'm not surprised either.

IMO This relationship seems more physical to me. They only really started getting to know each other properly since late December. The previous times were just short visits since June. Not enough time to get to know each other. Big mistake, but just like Royal Reporter, I wouldn't be surprised if Harry proposes soon. He really wants to settle down asap.

[Jacknch]

The thing to remember is that whatever the nature of the relationship is - and that is strictly between themselves - they are in the process now of getting to know each other. How often they see each other or spend time together is no indication whatsoever to how the relationship is fairing today in comparison to last week or indeed or how it will develop.

[Cocoasneeze]

With the technology and internet, getting to know each other can be done even from far apart. If work and other obligations force a long distance relationship, with all these skype, facetime etc, it's easy to share your life and everyday activities with each other. I'm making a wild guess, that Meghan and Harry have spent tons of time getting to know each other this way.

IMO Meghan and Harry are both charming people, easy to like, easy to get on with. Both are intelligent, witty, caring etc. I'm making another wild guess, that they've completely charmed the pants off each other with their personalities too, not just physically.

My last wild guess is, that neither would settle for a relationship they don't want to be in, Meghan is with Harry in his home, because he wants her there, and she wants to be there. I don't think either one is the settling type, they have no reason to settle.

[princesslily]

I disagree. You don't really know someone in a relationship properly and see if you're really suited together until you live with them for some time. IMO usually two years. Technology can provide masks to personalities. I don't agree you can really get to know someone this way.

[Cocoasneeze]

You can live with a person for years, and they turn out to be a completely different person. Who's putting these timelines out there, it doesn't work the same way for everyone. In any relationship, living together, long distance, dating casually, the people have to be open and honest. That's the key. If there's a mask on, it's going to be there when the people live together too.

[AmberG]

Originally Posted by Cocoasneeze

You can live with a person for years, and they turn out to be a completely different person. Who's putting these timelines out there, it doesn't work the same way for everyone. In any relationship, living together, long distance, dating casually, the people have to be open and honest. That's the key. If there's a mask on, it's going to be there when the people live together too.

Emphasis is on the word " honest"... belive or not, based on my lawyer experience, even the most honest person has some litlle secret which will hide from the partner...

Your description of them is correct because os based on their public persona but in person and privately they are different probably, at least in certain segments and probably both have some hidden cards in the sleeve ... after all, he is the prince, she is the actress...

So, nobody see him asking Chelsey to give him another chance? She was my favorite, most beatiful smile, pretty, best education, good and tight family...

[jacqui24]

Originally Posted by AmberG

Your description of them is correct because os based on their public persona but in person and privately they are different probably, at least in certain segments and probably both have some hidden cards in the sleeve ... after all, he is the prince, she is the actress...

Everyone is different. Sometimes differences don't work, some differences work well together. They are old enough to know who they are and be realistic about it. The thing about when people are young is that they don't know themselves as well, they are still growing as individuals and changing. But they are both at an age where they should know who they are and what's negotiable and what isn't.

Originally Posted by AmberG

So, nobody see him asking Chelsey to give him another chance? She was my favorite, most beatiful smile, pretty, best education, good and tight family...

He's had plenty of time if he wanted to. And well, we see where he is now.

[lilacmagnolia]

Originally Posted by AmberG

So, nobody see him asking Chelsey to give him another chance? She was my favorite, most beatiful smile, pretty, best education, good and tight family...

You are being so unrealistic...Chelsy didn't want a Royal life and Harry doesn't want to leave his...That automatically makes them incompatible meaning they were not meant to be.I'm sure he is more careful in his choices in women because of this...He is a Clingy Prince and if Meghan decides she wants that life he will definitely propose because Harry would never let her go.I would think he would still want hair at his wedding because it's going Fast now so we shouldn't have to wait much longer to see how it goes.

[Cocoasneeze]

Originally Posted by AmberG

So, nobody see him asking Chelsey to give him another chance? She was my favorite, most beatiful smile, pretty, best education, good and tight family...

Didn't she study to be a lawyer? She'd have to give that career up. I don't think either one s looking back and wishing for a redo.

[Curryong]

Chelsy is designing jewellery and a fashion line now, having given up the law. She gave several interviews mentioning Harry a few months ago when she was launching her new jewellery line. She didn't want a Royal life but she and Harry had a very tempestuous relationship anyway. From early 2009 there were several breakups, followed by short lived reconciliations. We don't know whether there was a mutual breakup.

[Mirabel]

Originally Posted by Cocoasneeze

Didn't she study to be a lawyer? She'd have to give that career up. I don't think either one s looking back and wishing for a redo.

Chelsy quit being a lawyer years ago.
I think she found it boring.

Anyway now she is designing jewelry.

I don't believe they'd ever get back together after all this time; that ship has sailed.

[Osipi]

Originally Posted by Cocoasneeze

You can live with a person for years, and they turn out to be a completely different person. Who's putting these timelines out there, it doesn't work the same way for everyone. In any relationship, living together, long distance, dating casually, the people have to be open and honest. That's the key. If there's a mask on, it's going to be there when the people live together too.

This is very true. Life is change and with time, people change also. I'm definitely not the person I was at 20 or even at 40 and at 65 I'm still changing. Its called growth. Some couples are so connected that they grow together. Other couples grow apart. It happens. There's no guarantee what works for you at 20, 30, 40 and so on will remain the same.

To really ensure any good relationship, it needs to have a good, solid foundation of honesty, trust and openness. Each person lets other people into their lives at a level of trust that's comfortable for them. Trust isn't something too that is just given. It is earned. When trust goes in a relationship, the foundation of it crumbles.

I always advised my kids as they grew older to live with a partner before even thinking of taking the marriage step. So far its worked and all three kids are happily in their first marriages. Children of a divorce (mine were older teens at the time) tend to be more cautious when it comes to marriage.

Harry and Chelsy were in different places when they dated. So were Harry and Cressida. They found that the relationship didn't work for them so they've moved on. This may happen with Meghan or it may be just the right fit for both of them with what they want their lives to be like. This is something that only the two of them can figure out and hopefully, they're addressing all the ins and outs and upside downs of things before they come to a decision.

One thing for sure though is that we do not know what is right or what is wrong for this couple. We don't know them.