carlota
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If the plan was to forge a new life, new way of doing things and change things up completely, having these lawsuits over their heads and the convoluted mess its created, is totally detrimental to going forward. Its constantly keeping every little, ugly tidbit about "wrongs" and "biases" and "mistreatment" alive and well and some would say that now, its even growing bigger and badder and flashing neon lights on a whole lot of trivial things that have grown into mountains of wrongs.
you'd have thought so! had they spoken to HM and charles about their plans to quit and moved on quietly without the lawsuits & the drama and lived off harry's and meghan's own fortunes as private individuals they'd now be enjoying a peaceful, privileged, private life.
i thought they said that was what they wanted but clearly that wasn't ALL they wanted. otherwise, why the need for the drama over their exit, for airing the dirty laundry and for launching a website to promote themselves and explain how they were right and others were wrong?
I do not think Meghan or Harry entered the marriage with the intention of moving away to either USA or Canada. IMO things did not go the way Meghan thought they would, i.e. the protocol the pecking order. I do not intend that to be a nasty comment , just that she did not give herself time to find out about the way the system works. It has went on for 1000 years, and however slowly it has changed.
When you consider the courtship it was back and forward over the Atlantic, how much of the inside story did she have a chance to work out.
It must have came as a tremendous shock to her to discover the limitations that she had now been placed under.
I am not going to rehash old conversations and examples, that I think IMO were game changers, just that I am quite sad about the whole mess. There is a feeling of a red line that has now been crossed.
They appeared to have used the court case as a vehicle to make public their grievances.
IMO they will regret this, it is now affecting the Crown and her majesty will not stand by and allow this to happen.
They appear to be dependant on funding at the moment , how long will this last or what restrictions will be placed on them. You do not bite the hand that feeds you.
yes, i don't think they married thinking they'd move out. no one in their right mind would. but their view of royal life clearly changed - rumours indicate that it happened over many things: H&M's relationship with william getting worse, meghan's treatment by the press and possibly by insiders. H&M's place in the pecking order... i find it hard to accept they'd get upset over this. they knew clearly what their role would be before they married!
an issue that i would have expected HM and charles to have pointed out was that there were blatant issues which needed addressing with harry and meghan marrying. namely:
- the short length of their courtship which also took place from a distance - they met in july 2016, and got engaged in november 2017. hardly enough time for a normal couple, one that lives in the same town/city and doesn't have any royal commitments, let alone a future prince/princess of the UK.
- meghan's background. as an american, this meant meghan's inexperience on the UK and the monarchy. as an actress, her 'hollywood' way of thinking/behaving couldn't have been further from the stiff upper lip monarchy.
both of these would be resolved with time. this was precisely what william advised (but they didn't listen). had they taken some time, they'd have been able to get meghan introduced to the UK, to the royal family and its work, to what is expected of them. they'd have had time to 'polish' her CV - get her involved with charities and worthwhile causes so that the public has more to go with than 'meghan markle, the actress of suits'. something similar was done for sofia of sweden who had a less than princessy CV (with project playground and voluntary work in Ghana), and it seemed to work quite well to rehabilitate her image.
but again, H&M decided to go their way and not listen. and the repercusions we are seeing until today.
i wouldn't be surprised if in april 2021, when they re-assess their situation they will let them go completely.