I hope Gawin and Susan999 will correct me if I misread or misinterpreted their posts, but I think the larger point that was being made was that even Diana, who did move into supporting more controversial causes as she got older, had years of building up public trust and affection before she took on some of those. While Meghan is no stranger to causes, she was a stranger to the British public, and didn't have that backlog of good will and trust. It's an interesting point to ponder, if in Harry and Meghan's eagerness to leverage their position, they went a little too fast. I'll have to think about that one, but I do think it's an interesting perspective.
Yes, but I think it also goes beyond that.
HighGoalHighDreams stated it much better than I did:
"The purpose and role of a monarchy is to represent what is, not to be a force for change. Because when the monarchy starts to lead the "change," it inherently means that people would be looking to the monarchy for
what that change should be-- and that is exactly what the monarchy is NOT purposed to do. The monarchy must take its lead from the mood, culture, and climate of the people, and not the other way around-- in other words, it must not lead but most be led."
As others have pointed out, Charles has been criticized for his stand on issues such as climate change, alternative medicine, GM, architecture and sustainable agriculture.
So yes, building goodwill is an issue, but members of the BRF must also consider how involved they should even be with issues/causes that might be construed as controversial or unpopular. Where do they draw the line? I have no idea. I just have the impression some people think Harry & Meghan have crossed it. Should they take a step back?
On top of that, Meghan is perceived by some an "outsider" and an nontraditional bride for a member of the BRF (American, biracial, activist, successful career, divorced). Fair or not, some members of the public probably resent what they
perceive as an outsider "instructing" them on marginalized members of the society they belong to & causes they should support.
I've always thought that British commoners (with one exception) who marry into the BRF bring an important asset to the table - they have an insider's knowledge of British public opinion & what the British expect from their RF. Catherine, for example, has been criticized for being bland but IMO this is a deliberate choice on her part. She has chosen to follow a very traditional role in order to avoid the controversy surrounding her husband's mother, stepmother, and Sarah Duchess of York. IMO she has a sense of what the
general public expects from the wife of a future king & mother of another and acts accordingly.
As a foreigner, Meghan doesn't have that advantage. She's never been a member of the British public. Neither have the royals. To them the public are outsiders. We saw this all too clearly during the Charles vs Diana debacle. Diana understood the British public far more than poor Charles did and she used it to her advantage. Likewise, the Queen Mother found it easier to mingle with the public than her in-laws did, but in her case she used this to strengthen the RF's popularity.
I think a lot of the criticism leveled at Harry & Meghan is unfair but like it or not, the BRF depends on the public's goodwill. Do I have a solution? No, definitely not. On the one hand I admire the couple & their work very much but on the other I sometimes wonder if it would be better from a PR perspective if they took a step back and adopted a more low-key approach, at least temporarily. I really don't know the answer.
And that's my wishy-washy opinion. ?