A Potential Wife for Prince Harry - Page 38

**Zonk** · #**741** 05-03-2011, 06:13 PM

If Chelsy was to stay in England and marry Harry, she would have to give up her law career. There are no two ifs ands or buts about it. Does anyone remember the issues with Sophie and Edward with their careers? And they had media/pr careers.

Can you imagine the issues with a lawyer? She can't defend murders and/or rapists so most of criminal law is out. She can't defend white collar crimes, so the so called victimless crimes are out. She can't work for the government because then some would accuse her of having a political opinion. She can't work for corporate Britian, then she would be accused of cronyism and capitalistic tendencies. The only thing she could possibly do is work on behalf of charities and even that's dicey.

Chelsy knows the deal. She is not a stupid girl. If she wants to be with Harry, she will be the person makig most of the sacrifices.

And as close as William and Harry are, I don't believe he will leave his brother to live the royal lifestyle by himself (although he has Kate now). He wouldn't do it.

CrownPrincess5 · #**742** 05-03-2011, 07:18 PM

How sad is that!
What a big decision to make. Harry or her career. That's a tough one but personally I'd choose my career...unless I'm madly in love with Harry. I have a feeling Chelsy feels the same way. She's seems independent and I like that. She'll think twice about giving up her career. We'll see.

bgirlshay13 · #**743** 05-03-2011, 11:34 PM

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How sad is that!
What a big decision to make. Harry or her career. That's a tough one but personally I'd choose my career...unless I'm madly in love with Harry. I have a feeling Chelsy feels the same way. She's seems independent and I like that. She'll think twice about giving up her career. We'll see.

i agree i dont see her giving it up because she is still doing it now why put all that time in money in it if you know were you going to end up.. but we will see.

roseroyal · #**744** 05-03-2011, 11:59 PM

I do not see Harry marrying Chelsy. Could be wrong... but I just do not see it.

KittyAtlanta · #**745** 05-04-2011, 10:15 AM

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IF (and that's a big if) Chelsy marries Harry I do not want to see her give up her career. Women can have it all nowadays and Chelsy doesn't strike me as the type who idly sits by. Also Harry seems to be the type of person who will support his wife no matter what she wants to do. I don't see why Harrys wife can't have her a cake and eat it to. Why does she have to compromise? Women have been compromised enough.

Well, having started my career at the end of the first wave of "women can have it all," any compromise a woman makes is of her own choosing. Everything is a trade off (which, in some cases means you can't have it all).

Unless someone can confirm that Chelsy is taking advantage of her internship, then she is sitting idly by. The law firm has been holding that position for her for going on 2 years.

Grandduchess24 · #**746** 05-04-2011, 10:37 AM

hmm...a potential wife for prince henry of wales? .... I just don't know yet but in my opinion it is not chelsy davy. I just can't see her as a royal and she herself doesn't wish for the royal lifestyle. she's too wild and is not princess material, and with her wild ways I am sure the queen wouldn't accept her. chelsy always when pictured looks like a mess and looked like a mess at the royal wedding as if she wasn't trying to at least look formal. I just hope the prince finds a decent girl who is worthy of carrying the title princess and not make the monarchy look bad. I know she makes him happy but she just dosen't want to be royal. maybe someone else,huh harry?

**soapstar** · #**747** 05-04-2011, 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by KittyAtlanta

Unless someone can confirm that Chelsy is taking advantage of her internship, then she is sitting idly by. The law firm has been holding that position for her for going on 2 years.

Yep. She's definitely not working right now. She's been traveling for the last year.

I don't see Harry and Chelsy marrying. In fact, I don't see Harry marrying anyone for awhile. He seems to be really focused on his career and I think settling down is the last thing on his mind.

LadyCatharine · #**748** 05-04-2011, 02:18 PM

This girl is DEF not ROYAL MATERIAL..
Saw a pic with her hair a mess, looked disheveled and a cigarette hanging out of her mouth..
She's a mess..

If she has no intention other then sowing her oats what's the point? Maybe Im missing something

Royal_Eagle · #**749** 05-04-2011, 03:01 PM

Since it sounds like both of them are committed to their career, perhaps they should just continue their relationship, but not marry for many years, until they've reached a good point, career-wise and can 'retire'. They can "live" together discreetly and be like a couple while they pursue their careers.

However if they want to have kids, then that'll be a real problem. I can see Prince Harry being good with kids (did anyone see how much fun he had with the wedding party on the ride from Abbey to the palace?), so he might want to be a Dad at some point.

On the other hand, if they don't want to have kids, then they can just carry on with their relationship for a while longer (10 to 20 or more years?). It's not required that Prince Harry have kids--after all there are plenty of people in the line of succession behind Prince Harry.

So I say, if they truly love each other but want to fulfill their career and yet be together--let them. Just be sure to get married before they have any kids.

HRHKaterina · #**750** 05-04-2011, 03:50 PM

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Originally Posted by LadyCatharine

This girl is DEF not ROYAL MATERIAL..
Saw a pic with her hair a mess, looked disheveled and a cigarette hanging out of her mouth..
She's a mess..

If she has no intention other then sowing her oats what's the point? Maybe Im missing something

That's sooo true. She is a hot mess hahaha.

Harry is a gentleman, not because Chelsy's family has money or she does charity means she has any sort of lady like qualities. At least Kate took some pride in how she presented herself to the public even before and after William. Chelsy always looks like she dragged herself out of bed and barely managed to brush her teeth. I am not bashing her, I'm just saying she should take some pride in her appearance if pictures do indeed say a thousand words.

Like it or not, people do judge by looks in this imperfect world. So if not for Harry's sake, she should do it for herself! I know she may not care what people think, but I'm sure love or no love, Harry is bound to be embarrassed at some point (it's like having an alcoholic father at a dignified party telling all your secrets and his, while throwing up....an embarrassment. No matter how much you love your father, no one would want that to happen again).

Sorry Chelsy lover's, the proof is in the pudding. She is Harry's toy for now.

Plus, he hasn't really dated that much, so he will seek else where when he considers marriage. After he sampled all Chelsy's benefits, what's really left to the imagination for any enticement? Think about it? That's how Ann Boleyn got Henry IV, that's how Kate got William...she presented herself as a lady with much left to be explored, even when they broke up for a year Kate made herself presentable showing William all he would not get. Chelsy has a long way to go, Harry wouldn't miss a thing if he did not marry Chelsy.

MissEvangeline · #**751** 05-04-2011, 05:01 PM

I don't think Harry would marry anyone that would require him to give up his title. Ditto for moving to Africa. He is extremely close to Charles and William and sees himself as a support for them in their duties. I've heard him speak in this regard about William specifically, that he wants to be around to help William when he is king. Diana raised these boys to go out into the world, but after she was gone, I believe their "duty" was drilled into them. They are loyal to the royals.

As for Harry marrying a woman of color, well, just remember that this is the guy who wore a Nazi uniform to a party and got in hot water for using terms like "Paki" and "raghead." Just sayin'. I like Harry, but I don't think that he is liberal enough to see this as an option.

bgirlshay13 · #**752** 05-04-2011, 06:11 PM

[QUOTE=MissEvangeline;1248334]I don't think Harry would marry anyone that would require him to give up his title. Ditto for moving to Africa. He is extremely close to Charles and William and sees himself as a support for them in their duties. I've heard him speak in this regard about William specifically, that he wants to be around to help William when he is king. Diana raised these boys to go out into the world, but after she was gone, I believe their "duty" was drilled into them. They are loyal to the royals.

As for Harry marrying a woman of color, well, just remember that this is the guy who wore a Nazi uniform to a party and got in hot water for using terms like "Paki" and "raghead." Just sayin'. I like Harry, but I don't think that he is liberal enough to see this as an option.

harry was young then even if he should have not did it i think he has learned from it ... marrying a women of color would be interesting for the royal family but u dont think he will get married anytime soon.

PrincessKaimi · #**753** 05-04-2011, 07:43 PM

At this point in time, I find it hard to imagine Harry giving up much at all to get married!

CrownPrincess5 · #**754** 05-04-2011, 09:36 PM

Why does everyone think he has to move to Africa if he marries Chelsy? I don't see him doing that and I definitely don't see Chelsy in future. I wish I could choose his wife for him........

Mermaid1962 · #**755** 05-04-2011, 09:47 PM

I agree. Law and politics are closely related IMO.

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Originally Posted by Zonk

If Chelsy was to stay in England and marry Harry, she would have to give up her law career.

HRHKaterina · #**756** 05-04-2011, 10:31 PM

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Originally Posted by MissEvangeline

I don't think Harry would marry anyone that would require him to give up his title. Ditto for moving to Africa. He is extremely close to Charles and William and sees himself as a support for them in their duties. I've heard him speak in this regard about William specifically, that he wants to be around to help William when he is king. Diana raised these boys to go out into the world, but after she was gone, I believe their "duty" was drilled into them. They are loyal to the royals.

As for Harry marrying a woman of color, well, just remember that this is the guy who wore a Nazi uniform to a party and got in hot water for using terms like "Paki" and "raghead." Just sayin'. I like Harry, but I don't think that he is liberal enough to see this as an option.

Fair enough. But interestingly enough also, this is the very reason I see him marrying possibly a colored girl. He wore a nazi uniform, showing the past is the past....he was immature. "Paki" and "raghead" I'm not sure what these terms mean. He expresses himself in an unconventional way rather than sit there and hypocritically think about it. Maybe a colored girl is just the wake up call he needs....wouldn't that be interesting after all the offensive things he said and did and people thinking he's racist. That would give him and everyone a new perspective of expect the unexpected?

EllieCat · #**757** 05-04-2011, 11:11 PM

i don't think Prince Harry is racist at all. Isn't one of his close friends Lesotho's Prince Seeiso, the chap he founded Sentabale charity with? This Prince is African.

Certainly Harry speaks before he thinks!

ZaJa · #**758** 05-04-2011, 11:17 PM

He made a big mistake saying those things and wearing that horrible outfit. But there are so many people that do the same or worse. He seems to have matured in so many ways. Harry is a person that seems relaxed with who he is, is good for a laugh. That has stayed with him but he has matured. So I think I'd give him the benefit of the doubt and say he's not an out and out racist. I recall he did apologize in both ocassions. And one of his fellow service men said that language was common but not used in a negative way towards each other.

As for his on/off girlfriend I don't think they're destined to be married. I'm not sure when Harry would ever get married but I just don't see it happening with C.L However if they did I'd wish them well and hoped it all worked out :)

MRSJ · #**759** 05-04-2011, 11:23 PM

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i don't think Prince Harry is racist at all. Isn't one of his close friends Lesotho's Prince Seeiso, the chap he founded Sentabale charity with? This Prince is African

I think she means racist against India/Pakistan origin not blacks...that's who the awful terms ''raghead'' and ''paki'' are directed towards

But yes I agree he's not racist but those words and actions certainly weren't mature and well thoughtout

HRHKaterina · #**760** 05-04-2011, 11:36 PM

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I think she means racist against India/Pakistan origin not blacks...that's who the awful terms ''raghead'' and ''paki'' are directed towards

But yes I agree he's not racist but those words and actions certainly weren't mature and well thoughtout

My thoughts exactly! He was immature at the time and spoke without thinking. He isn't racist for these few instances though. I have seen him with other races and he is quite open minded. His mother did after all have a lover of a different race...'Dodi'?