ysbel
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One reason why the Windsor's absence is drawing so much comment is people's natural tendency to look for conformity in groups. We expect people that belong to the same group to behave in a consistent manner, at least in social situations.
Regardless of how the royal families feel about each other, non-royals will lump them all together as the royals. When we see a behavior that the majority of the group exhibits (like showing up at Carl Gustaf's birthday) its natural to criticize the odd one out and want to bring them back inline with the rest of the group. In this case, its the British and the Spanish.
The Spanish haven't received so much comment, I think, because in general, they do show up at other royal events and the monarchs do appear at some of them.
With the British, however, people have noted that the Queen has never really participated in other royal events so its an observable pattern.
My own personal opinion is that until recently it wasn't really a big deal and part of the reason was that the European monarchies were called 'bicycle monarchies' and not considered in the same league as the British who were really royal. The Europeans liked their monarchies but everyone seemed to agree that the British were a family apart from other royal families.
Now with the scandals of the 80s and 90s and recently steps to simplify the British monarchy, the attributes of royal silence and lack of scandal which set the British apart from other royal families have been eroded somewhat. So ts harder for the rest of us not to lump the British monarchy with the other monarchies and wonder why they're not getting with the program.
We do the same when one royal doesn't seem to fit in with the other royals in their family. Princess Michael has a much more flaboyant and outspoken style than the rest of the British Royals and she is routinely criticized because she doesn't fit the mold of how people expect British royals to behave.
Regardless of how the royal families feel about each other, non-royals will lump them all together as the royals. When we see a behavior that the majority of the group exhibits (like showing up at Carl Gustaf's birthday) its natural to criticize the odd one out and want to bring them back inline with the rest of the group. In this case, its the British and the Spanish.
The Spanish haven't received so much comment, I think, because in general, they do show up at other royal events and the monarchs do appear at some of them.
With the British, however, people have noted that the Queen has never really participated in other royal events so its an observable pattern.
My own personal opinion is that until recently it wasn't really a big deal and part of the reason was that the European monarchies were called 'bicycle monarchies' and not considered in the same league as the British who were really royal. The Europeans liked their monarchies but everyone seemed to agree that the British were a family apart from other royal families.
Now with the scandals of the 80s and 90s and recently steps to simplify the British monarchy, the attributes of royal silence and lack of scandal which set the British apart from other royal families have been eroded somewhat. So ts harder for the rest of us not to lump the British monarchy with the other monarchies and wonder why they're not getting with the program.
We do the same when one royal doesn't seem to fit in with the other royals in their family. Princess Michael has a much more flaboyant and outspoken style than the rest of the British Royals and she is routinely criticized because she doesn't fit the mold of how people expect British royals to behave.
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