The interview of the Queen
Elisabeth Rehn says that she and the Finns are very delighted that the Queen gives this interview and the Queen says that they like Finland very much, they get always a very warm reception there. Not just she and the king, but also crown princess Victoria. Rehn tells about a poll few years ago, the Finns answered that they could have monarchy instead of republic, if Victoria would be their Queen. The Queen promised to tell this to Victoria. Rehn says that it is important that the Nordic countries keep together, a good example of it is that the new finnish president always makes his first state visit to Sweden. These are good and right bonds. The Queen understood it for the first time when president Kekkonen came to their wedding, it was so great that he could attend. And he attended also at Victoria's christening. President Kekkonen gave them a double rocking chair, the Queen still uses it and Rehn suggests that the Queen could sit there now with Estelle. The Queen thinks that it is an excellent idea. Rehn said that she knows that president Kekkonen meant a lot to the king. The Queen says that the king has often said that Kekkonen was important for him – he was an elderly, wise man, who could give advice in many important things. President Kekkonen felt a little responsibility to take care of the king, like a good neighbour should. Then they talked about the king's and queen's visits to the finnish archipelago.
Rehn says that after this lovely chat we will go to more serious things, the children, the Queen has paid so much attention to them. You have used your position and title in a good way. Tell how it all started. The Queen says that it started many years ago, she saw already as a child in Brazil that many children had miserable life, many were begging. She was already then shocked about this. And when she married the king, they travelled a lot and this vision got stronger and she wanted to do something. It was a humanitarian question for her and she was thinking how she could help. She doesn't want to say that she took advantage of her position. In a positive way, says Rehn. The Queen says that she could get people's attention to some things, she could tell about the things important to her. She was worried about the disabled children and also about the children who were abused. They weren't popular items, in some countries they were tabu. In Sweden and Europe the people didn't talk much about the child abuse. About the sexual abuse of the children wasn't discussed at all. The queen realized that she could do something to that. She spoke about the sexual abuse of the children at an UNESCO meeting in Paris and saw how shocked all were. But if you don't talk about things, nothing will change. We have to do something, these are difficult issues. That is why you want to continue. The children have it the toughest. It gives the Queen strength to continue, talk about it and try to help. You get friends who are interested in it too. Rehn says that the queen founded the World Childhood Foundation, many years ago. The Queen says that next year they have 15 year jubileum. Rehn says that as a Chair of the Board of Directors of the Trust Fund for Victims ICC she has seen when little girls get in the middle of violence and war. Her friends have told her: Why are you doing this. You are old (Rehn is 78 years old), you can sit and knit socks. Rehn says that she wants to help if she can. The Queen says that it is great that Rehn doesn't sit and knit socks.
Rehn asks if the Queen wants to help the disabled children because she speaks also the sign language. The Queen nods and tells that she got once flowers from a little boy and thanked him and saw that he didn't understand. She was told that the boy was deaf. The Queen thought it would be good if everyone knew sign language a little that they could communicate with the deaf. She started to go to a school for deaf children, for two hours every Thursday and the children taught her to sign. It was difficult, because at that time in Sweden the children weren’t wanted to sign, but read from the lips. The sign language wasn't officially popular, the children signed when they were together but officially they should learn to read from the lips. The Queen understood that the children spoke differently when they signed. The sign language is a very beautiful language, says the Queen. She was quite good in it then but now she has forgotten a lot.
Rehn says that Tsunami was harder for Sweden than Finland and tells that she cried when she heard the king’s speech. The Queen tells that the speech gives her still warm feelings. The catastrophe gave strong feelings for the king. With his speech the king connected all people who had difficult time then. He took them to his arms. The Queen and the King were in Stockholm when the Tsunami happened. Everyone was on a Christmas vacation. It was difficult to get information, she heard from the radio that five Swedes had died. Her godson was in Thailand and she didn't get him on the phone. She called the boy’s father and he spoke with the boy on the phone. The boy told that he had been on a trip and everything was so beautiful. While he spoke he got to the beach and saw what had happened. Her godson was a young soldier and helped at the rescue operation.
Rehn says that the royals have a sort of gag in their mouth, they can't express political opinions. Is it difficult sometimes, the king and queen get all the information but can't talk? The queen says that they can think. They don't want to get involved with the politics. The Queen tells that she was once asked about the marking of grades at school. It was and still is a hot question. Her children were at school then. She told her opinion as a mother but it was understood in a different way she meant. She learned from that she should not tell her personal opinions. They are in direct contact with the ministeries and speak about things but don’t do it in public.
Rehn says that one interesting issue was the change in the Order of Succession. The king was quite strict in his opinion that a good and well working order shouldn’t have been changed. You, the Queen, didn't say anything. Rehn thinks that the result was very good and she believes that the Crown Princess gets support from her family. Did the king want an easier life for the Crown princess? The queen says that it is not easy to be a parent when a so important issue is to be changed. When the Queen got married, she was married with the King and had small children at the same time. It is very tough and people don't always understand that. Now the Crown Princess has her small family and it is important that she has time for her family and that she can spend time with her child. She has her tasks and duties and she does them, but of course she misses Estelle all the time. The Queen thinks that the King understood this already when the Order of Succession changed. It is difficult to merge with the work and the family life. Someone suffers always. It is important that the Crown Princess has time with her child. She will be an excellent Queen. We all know that, says Rehn. The Queen continues: She is emphathic, wise and honest.
Rehn asks if the Queen has sometimes had a bad conscience which the career women sometimes have? Always, says the Queen. It isn't easy when you have a great sense of duty and want to help. The children are sad. The duty calls. The Queen got great help from the nannies, they gave great safety, but the mother is the mother. Rehn says that one gets these feelings when one does things or work which doesn't benefit their children at all. How the royal children have coped with the chase by the media? The Queen says that the children have done well, she admires them. Carl Philip is doing quite well, and Madeleine has got stronger during the years. But she thinks that the media should take more responsibility about what they write. The Queen is happy that she has such great children: nice, natural and they treat other people well. That is not always seen. Rehn says that that doesn't sell as well. The Queen says that the press writes things that aren't true, she is very sad about that. Rehn says that then you are fighting against something you can't control. Rehn asks if the King and Queen can sometimes live a really normal life when they are on vacation? The Queen smiles: Yes we can. Rehn says that the Queen has accomplished so much in Sweden and abroad because of her work and that she cares. Rehn thanks for the interview and the Queen says that this was a great discussion, and sends greetings to Finland.
Info about the interviewer, Elisabeth Rehn.
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