Daria_S
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The more I've thought about this, the more I'm leaning towards the belief that HM, The Queen was greeting her son and being in Queen mode, it was never too young to start Charles off on the ways and means of protocol when out and about in public. He wasn't that much older than when he sat in a crowded Westminster Abbey and watched his mother being crowned Queen.
From what we've seen from private family pictures and videos that have made their way into the public domain, there were a lot of fun times as a family and a closeness that that most families share. One would only have to look at Charles' face as he presented the early years in the Diamond Jubilee presentation he put together to realize what fond memories he did have from growing up.
Was the Queen cold? I don't believe so. Was the Queen proper and dignified when in the public eye and in "Queen mode"? Most certainly.
When I first got interested in the BRF in my teens, I was under the impression that Her Majesty was distant, and had no clue how to show emotion. However, as I got older, and did more research, I realized just how wrong I was. It takes a very disciplined person to keep emotions in check, especially when the instinct tells one to do otherwise. I'm sure HM would have loved to giver her little son a hug, but she was in her 'work' mode, so she couldn't just switch it off. I'm sure in private she gave him all the hugs that she missed during her time away. I loved the images and footage we saw during Diamond Jubilee. They showed a family that loved being together, just like most families. The parents knew how to have fun, and the kids were happy. We also need to remember that every person needs to be loved in a different way, and sometimes a parent shows love in a way that doesn't meet the child's needs. It doesn't mean the child is not loved. It just means that both parties need to make some adjustments. Her Majesty, and Prince Philip did the best they could with what they were given. That's all anyone can ask.
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