Alexandria
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ZandraRae said:I agree with alot of what Ricarda and Saturn say. The fact that we hardly see them acting affection toward each other just bugs me to death. I was brought up showing love to my family, whether people were watching or not. As for the thing about royalty marrying commoners... if you find love in someone who is not from your background, then great. As long as they're happy.
Firstly, Felipe and Letizia are there to do a job. They are at acts to represent Spain. How much affection would you show your husband or wife if you worked together? In my office, which is quite corporate, we know that some individuals are dating, but we would never expect to see them making out by the photo copier or in the lunch room. Just because Felipe and Letizia do not work in an office setting doesn't mean that such common etiquette in the workplace shouldn't follow.
Additionally, they are surrounded by ministers, organizers and fellow Spaniards at every event they attend. Do they really want to be "making out" in front of dozens or even hundreds of people?
Secondly, I think it's great that you were brought up to be openly affectionate with your family members, but not everyone was brought up in this manner, royal or otherwise. The King and Queen of Spain are rarely, if ever, publicly engage in kissing or hand holding when out and about. They likely brought their children up in a similar manner, especially when out working.
It's called professionalism, and it should be expected of all working adults, royal or otherwise. I for one would lose some respect for this couple if they began smooching at every public event they attended in a professional capacity. You know that when you see them, they are out to do their job, not to show the world head over heels in love they are.
I also think that couples who feel it necessary to publicly display their love and affection for each other (*cough Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes, cough*), that their love isn't that secure or that strong. This couple is also not about grandiose gestures of love or great affection. This doesn't mean that they don't love each other or don't have affection for one another, but that subtle signs of their love will do, such as holding hands, whispering intimately in each other's ears now and then or a light kiss on the cheek.