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Originally Posted by BeatrixFan
The thing is, I've no problem whatsoever with straight people using the words 'queer' or 'poof' if they're used in the spirit the gay community uses them. It's when they're used as a term of insult that I take offence and I think in this case the intention is unknown which makes it harder to rationale.
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I understand what you are saying, but as they were probably merry at the time, I don't think you should take it as offensive. A dearly loved hon. uncle always referred to himself as an old poof and it always made us laugh, which was his intention. Was he Gay, I think so although in those days nobody was quite so open about it, then again a woman going into a pub or club on her own was considered 'racy'!
Words and their meanings have changed over the years, what was seen as an accepted word for a homosexual 30+ years ago, is now seen as offensive. Again, 30+ years ago, queer meant strange, now if you say he's queer, it is misunderstood.