I believe Alexandra is still a princess. Her title is HH Princess Alexandra, Countess of Fredriksbourg. I believe she lost the title Her Royal Highness (HRH) upon the divorce. So as princess and a countess she outranks just a countess. If I'm incorrect I'm sure someone will know.
But Mary's lady in waiting is very chic. She once wore leather pants on an outing with Mary and looked great!
