That is what was reported at the time of the separation,that Alexandra suffered a lot.They were something like "sweethearts" from their childhood,the 2 families had appartments in the same building.He must have been the love of her life.
Sgl,about your question:no,they aren't married yet.Alex seems to have gone too far this time.You can find interesting articles about the Reggie-Ali incident,if you google them.For example,they say that Alex rented a small airplane and flew above LA with a sign behind it "Reggie stop pursuing married women" and other insane things,that he started a campaign of harrassment against Reggie Miller etc.Well,I don't know if we should believe all these,the only thing I'm pretty sure about is that Alex isn't the most...well-balanced person out there.