Princess Sayako formally engaged to Kuroda in traditional rite
Princess Sayako, Emperor Akihito's only daughter, was formally engaged to Yoshiki Kuroda, an employee with the Tokyo metropolitan government, in a traditional rite of betrothal at the Imperial Palace on Saturday. The princess, 35, popularly known as Princess Nori, and Kuroda, 39, are expected to be married sometime after the summer following a series of court rites, according to the Imperial Household Agency.
The special rite, called "Nosai no Gi" in Japanese, is the first in the series. In the privately held ceremony at the Imperial Residence, a messenger from Kuroda formally conveyed Kuroda's proposal to marry Princess Sayako and offered traditional engagement gifts of two fresh sea breams, three bottles of sake and two sets of silk, the agency said. Sea breams are given as gifts in Japan to mark auspicious events.
The couple became formally engaged when Grand Steward Toshio Yuasa of the Imperial Household told the messenger that the princess and her parents accepted the offer of marriage.
Kuroda's cousin, Naoyuki, 53, took the role as messenger.
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The imperial family will also send its messenger to Kuroda's home in Tokyo
bearing another set of gifts, including two fresh sea breams, three bottles of sake and two sets of wool, while Princess Sayako will report her engagement to other members of her family and receive their congratulations.
The heads of three branches of government, senior agency officials and others will also visit and congratulate the princess.
In the afternoon, Kuroda and his mother Sumiko, 69, will visit the Imperial Residence for a meeting with Emperor Akihito, Empress Michiko and the princess. Kuroda's father is deceased.
The princess, the youngest of three children of the emperor and empress, is the last to marry.
She has to relinquish her royal title following her marriage with Kuroda in accordance with Imperial House Law, which stipulates that a female member has to leave the imperial household if she marries a commoner.
It is the first time in 46 years that a female member of an emperor's immediate family has wed.
The princess and Kuroda have known each other for a long time. He is a childhood friend of Prince Akishino, the younger of her two brothers.
Kuroda and Prince Akishino have been close friends since their elementary school days at Gakushuin Primary School in Tokyo.
The prince is said to have played a part in bringing his best friend and sister together.
The couple met again in January 2003 after a long interval. They decided to marry last summer, according to sources close to the imperial family.
In 1960, Princess Takako, the fifth daughter of the late Emperor Hirohito, posthumously known as Emperor Showa, left the household through marriage.
When a female imperial family member becomes a commoner by marriage, she receives a lump sum of up to 150 million yen under the law. Princess Takako, who was popularly called Princess Suga, received 15 million yen.
Princess Sayako was born on April 18, 1969, and graduated from Gakushuin University, an institution that has been educating many members of the royal family, in 1992 with a bachelor's degree in Japanese language and literature.
The princess works at the Yamashina Institute for Ornithology in Chiba Prefecture as a researcher. She has been involved in research on kingfishers there.
The couple are expected to continue their respective careers after their marriage.
Kuroda belonged to Gakushuin University's nature and culture study club, which was headed by Prince Akishino, whose wife, Princess Kiko, was also a member of the club.
After his graduation in law in 1988, Kuroda joined Mitsui Bank, one of the predecessors of what is now Sumitomo Mitsui Banking Corp.
In April 1997, he joined the Tokyo metropolitan government and now works in the construction department.
Kuroda lives with his mother in Tokyo. His father, who worked for Toyota Motor Corp., died in 1986.
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