xenobia
Serene Highness
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One last attempt to explain my way of thinking...
If I was planning to get married next summer (in fact, I am) and had two sisters (I don't) whom I knew wanted and planned for another child, this is what I personally would do:
I would pick 2 or 3 dates in the summer that would work for myself and others involved. I would then wait until around 6 months before summer to set the exact date. By then I would know if anyone of them would be highly pregnant at that time, and if so, I would pick a date that would make it possible for them to attend. Being pregnant or having a toddler at the wedding is of course possible, but if my sister was due around the time of my wedding, there would be a risk of her not being able to attend.
My family is more important to me than having a special date for my wedding. And I think that's the case for CP as well. He is close to his sisters. Of course he would want them to attend.
And yes, I'm sure that the wedding preparations has been on their way for quite a while now. There is a lot of things you can do without setting the exact date for a wedding.
And no, the most important thing here is not to speculate in possible pregnancies, but since I think that might explain why the wedding date might not be official for a while, I had to mention it.
If I was planning to get married next summer (in fact, I am) and had two sisters (I don't) whom I knew wanted and planned for another child, this is what I personally would do:
I would pick 2 or 3 dates in the summer that would work for myself and others involved. I would then wait until around 6 months before summer to set the exact date. By then I would know if anyone of them would be highly pregnant at that time, and if so, I would pick a date that would make it possible for them to attend. Being pregnant or having a toddler at the wedding is of course possible, but if my sister was due around the time of my wedding, there would be a risk of her not being able to attend.
My family is more important to me than having a special date for my wedding. And I think that's the case for CP as well. He is close to his sisters. Of course he would want them to attend.
And yes, I'm sure that the wedding preparations has been on their way for quite a while now. There is a lot of things you can do without setting the exact date for a wedding.
And no, the most important thing here is not to speculate in possible pregnancies, but since I think that might explain why the wedding date might not be official for a while, I had to mention it.