The point is though, surely, Denville, that the whole situation could have been avoided by Charles not mentioning who his mistress was in the Dimbleby interview and book. Charles blamed his Private Secretary Commander Aylard for that contremps, but surely there comes a time when you have to own your own decisions. He left Camilla PB in, to say the least, a very equivocal position by outing her and it was the end of her marriage, something she did not want.