4 times? Are you sure cause it's 4 times in the press, the press isn't always right, the only real official one has been in 2007 . Well the only example I can give you that I can relate again is my cousin he too was not ready to get married(obviously he's not future king of England but still) so his girlfriend and him talked it through and she was ok with waiting(for 10 years! hopefully Kate won't need to wait that long but you get the point) they finally got married in January of this year(not last year like I said earlier I was wrong) So who knows, we really know nothing about Kate she could be lovely and very much an understanding person, for all we know maybe she isn't ready either.