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Old 02-21-2017, 07:10 PM
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Geesh... these two haven't even had a public outing for all to see yet or are anywhere near an engagement (that we're aware of) and we're already talking babies.
Why else discuss anything? It's all about the wedding dress and flowers, plus that first bundle of joy. I have my priorities in place. Just sayin'.

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I have no clue why or can hope to explain it, but I always had the feeling that Cressida was more of a "friend with benenfits" type of relationship rather than having a serious feeling to it.
I have to agree, but a lot of it might/could be explained (maybe) by the fact that Cressida was very young (in age and experience) when they hooked up. I often wonder if what we saw was Harry's doing (in reaction to the ott coverage that drove away Chelsy). It's in the realm of possibility that Cressida was behaving exactly the way Harry instructed her she should (meaning to be protective). Speculation, but would explain a lot about what we saw. Cressida was clearly destroyed when either she stood up to him or he dropped her. Hard to say what happened there. (Poor kid).

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I have a totally different feeling with this relationship. The privacy, the standing up for mistreatment and the protectiveness Harry displays doing this and in the few pictures of them we have been able to see.
What might be different is Harry has matured and he realizes that he has to put himself on the line for his lady. This fact that Meghan is biracial suddenly makes it all sensible. Meghan has to be tough (in a good way), and savvy (to survive). You want to be in her sphere, I suspect you need to respect her. She's not going to agree to anything close to what Cressida put up with (in her cluelessness). That's the way I'm seeing it right now. Give me a moment and I'll change.
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Old 02-21-2017, 07:29 PM
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I think some people just want this relationship to be a mere fling - which this is not. Both Prince Harry and Meghan are too old for such games and they are full fledged dating until an engagement takes this relationship to an entirely new level.
Yep. That's about the size and shape of it.

Can we trust the report (I've been looking around) that Harry introduced Meghan to Kate and Charlotte? 'Fake News'?

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The sooner that time comes, the more we will continue to deal with an over analysis of the meaning, purpose, and viability of this relationship. I'm bracing myself because once they are engaged, the gloves will really come off for varying opinions on social media.
It will be interesting times, not so? But if anyone can handle the blowback it will be exactly someone like Meghan, a biracial woman with a career and her own interests (charities) in sync with Harry's. Meghan might well be the making of Harry, and if he is unfailingly a good man with her (no temper, no subtle 'royalese' class markers), then I'm sure she will make the right choice and he'll be the happier for it. Just hope, if it goes that route, that Meghan is fully aware of the 'cage' she is opting for. There will be trade-offs, of course, especially if there is 'true love', but even that can be strained. I wish for them, should they step it up, the kind of relationship I see between Edward and Sophie Wessex.

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Hookups and casual relationships with feelings not really involved don't require statements of defence of the girlfriend from KP. Harry's heart was showing there, whether this ends in marriage or not!
Agree 100%. This is a mature woman, not a fan, or a 'subject'. If he wants her in his life he has to earn her respect and trust. Well done, Harry.
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Old 02-21-2017, 08:14 PM
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I believe she had her first child at 39. So she wasn't exactly young either at that point. But these things vary, and fitness and health before certainly has an effect. Sometimes there are young people who have fertility issues, you just never know.
She had an ectopic pregnancy 2 years earlier.
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Old 02-21-2017, 09:04 PM
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Well I haven't been here in a long time and so much has changed!

Meghan was dating her ex chef boyfriend in May and apparently with Harry officially since July and casually dating before. There's one hint.

Here's one post in May showing her ex chef BF on holiday with Meg. https://www.instagram.com/p/BE35XD_y...vitiello&hl=en
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Old 02-21-2017, 09:26 PM
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Sadly, I think Harry has made his choice. But I personally believe there will be problems in the future and more of what I've heard will come out. The truth will always eventually come out.
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Old 02-21-2017, 09:41 PM
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That he announced her as his girlfriend seems key. What fun! Another wedding! Can we dare hope for a winter wedding finally?

Has there been another official statement from Harry that I don't know about?
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Old 02-21-2017, 10:05 PM
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Has there been another official statement from Harry that I don't know about?
I don't think so. I'm just having some fun.
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Sadly, I think Harry has made his choice.
On what do you base such? You sound like you think Harry sees Meghan as 'the one'. What evidence is there of that?

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But I personally believe there will be problems in the future and more of what I've heard will come out. The truth will always eventually come out.
I'm sure there will be all manner of nastiness concocted, just as there was with Chelsy and Cressida, and Kate with William. It's why I think Harry is not a good bet for any woman. Just not worth the real dark animus that gets stirred.
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Old 02-21-2017, 10:48 PM
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Well I haven't been here in a long time and so much has changed!

Meghan was dating her ex chef boyfriend in May and apparently with Harry officially since July and casually dating before. There's one hint.

Here's one post in May showing her ex chef BF on holiday with Meg. https://www.instagram.com/p/BE35XD_y...vitiello&hl=en
The timeline here seems consistent with what Piers Morgan's piece talked about. He and Meghan met up in June, and she mentioned she was recently single, and there is a few guys that are being a little persistent. So sounds like to me, it's pretty consistent that she was telling the truth and she was single at that time.
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Old 02-22-2017, 02:54 AM
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Richard Palmer today answering a follower on his Twitter Page about the state of the Harry/Meghan romance --'Like everyone I can only guess. It seems serious and intense. I wouldn't be surprised if they got engaged soon.'
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Old 02-22-2017, 05:56 AM
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Richard Palmer today answering a follower on his Twitter Page about the state of the Harry/Meghan romance --'Like everyone I can only guess. It seems serious and intense. I wouldn't be surprised if they got engaged soon.'
I'm not surprised either.

IMO This relationship seems more physical to me. They only really started getting to know each other properly since late December. The previous times were just short visits since June. Not enough time to get to know each other. Big mistake, but just like Royal Reporter, I wouldn't be surprised if Harry proposes soon. He really wants to settle down asap.
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Old 02-22-2017, 06:50 AM
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The thing to remember is that whatever the nature of the relationship is - and that is strictly between themselves - they are in the process now of getting to know each other. How often they see each other or spend time together is no indication whatsoever to how the relationship is fairing today in comparison to last week or indeed or how it will develop.
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Old 02-22-2017, 07:39 AM
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With the technology and internet, getting to know each other can be done even from far apart. If work and other obligations force a long distance relationship, with all these skype, facetime etc, it's easy to share your life and everyday activities with each other. I'm making a wild guess, that Meghan and Harry have spent tons of time getting to know each other this way.

IMO Meghan and Harry are both charming people, easy to like, easy to get on with. Both are intelligent, witty, caring etc. I'm making another wild guess, that they've completely charmed the pants off each other with their personalities too, not just physically.

My last wild guess is, that neither would settle for a relationship they don't want to be in, Meghan is with Harry in his home, because he wants her there, and she wants to be there. I don't think either one is the settling type, they have no reason to settle.
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Old 02-22-2017, 08:27 AM
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I disagree. You don't really know someone in a relationship properly and see if you're really suited together until you live with them for some time. IMO usually two years. Technology can provide masks to personalities. I don't agree you can really get to know someone this way.
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Old 02-22-2017, 08:34 AM
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You can live with a person for years, and they turn out to be a completely different person. Who's putting these timelines out there, it doesn't work the same way for everyone. In any relationship, living together, long distance, dating casually, the people have to be open and honest. That's the key. If there's a mask on, it's going to be there when the people live together too.
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You can live with a person for years, and they turn out to be a completely different person. Who's putting these timelines out there, it doesn't work the same way for everyone. In any relationship, living together, long distance, dating casually, the people have to be open and honest. That's the key. If there's a mask on, it's going to be there when the people live together too.
Emphasis is on the word " honest"... belive or not, based on my lawyer experience, even the most honest person has some litlle secret which will hide from the partner...

Your description of them is correct because os based on their public persona but in person and privately they are different probably, at least in certain segments and probably both have some hidden cards in the sleeve ... after all, he is the prince, she is the actress...

So, nobody see him asking Chelsey to give him another chance? She was my favorite, most beatiful smile, pretty, best education, good and tight family...
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Old 02-22-2017, 09:43 AM
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Your description of them is correct because os based on their public persona but in person and privately they are different probably, at least in certain segments and probably both have some hidden cards in the sleeve ... after all, he is the prince, she is the actress...
Everyone is different. Sometimes differences don't work, some differences work well together. They are old enough to know who they are and be realistic about it. The thing about when people are young is that they don't know themselves as well, they are still growing as individuals and changing. But they are both at an age where they should know who they are and what's negotiable and what isn't.

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So, nobody see him asking Chelsey to give him another chance? She was my favorite, most beatiful smile, pretty, best education, good and tight family...
He's had plenty of time if he wanted to. And well, we see where he is now.
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Old 02-22-2017, 09:47 AM
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So, nobody see him asking Chelsey to give him another chance? She was my favorite, most beatiful smile, pretty, best education, good and tight family...
You are being so unrealistic...Chelsy didn't want a Royal life and Harry doesn't want to leave his...That automatically makes them incompatible meaning they were not meant to be.I'm sure he is more careful in his choices in women because of this...He is a Clingy Prince and if Meghan decides she wants that life he will definitely propose because Harry would never let her go.I would think he would still want hair at his wedding because it's going Fast now so we shouldn't have to wait much longer to see how it goes.
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Old 02-22-2017, 09:52 AM
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So, nobody see him asking Chelsey to give him another chance? She was my favorite, most beatiful smile, pretty, best education, good and tight family...
Didn't she study to be a lawyer? She'd have to give that career up. I don't think either one s looking back and wishing for a redo.
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Chelsy is designing jewellery and a fashion line now, having given up the law. She gave several interviews mentioning Harry a few months ago when she was launching her new jewellery line. She didn't want a Royal life but she and Harry had a very tempestuous relationship anyway. From early 2009 there were several breakups, followed by short lived reconciliations. We don't know whether there was a mutual breakup.
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